The difference between men and women. Part 1.

Note: This is not an expert opinion or from a therapist. This article comes from my own thoughts and feelings. At the end of this article I will give you a few tips on communicating with men. It's up to you to put this into action to better your relationship with a man. This is the first part of my upcoming full book I'm hoping to have out in the future.

We sometimes have a difficult time understanding the opposite sex. It's hard for both men and women to find true love when we are faced with problems we don't fully understand. We may sometimes feel hurt, intimidated, or hopeless because we have a hard time understanding our partners. Men and women are different. It's how we are created.

I decided to do this article to help women better understand men because men are very much misunderstood. Men are seen as dogs and animals by some women. Women don't really understand the reason that sex, attention, and other things are that important to him. Not every man will explain himself to a woman. So I decided to make this article so a woman can better understand what needs to be understood. So let's get started.

1. Men are not all about sex.

We as women know men love sex and we know there is not a man out there that doesn't. But the reason isn't always about "getting some". The main reason is because it's a special time he gets to have with the woman he loves. It's not only about him being pleased or having children. He wants it because it's a way he can show her how he feels. It's a way to show her he loves her. Most men don't just want to get right to it. They want to take their time and really show a woman how he feels.

Sex is only one of the most important things to a man. It's not the only thing but it's one of the top things. Men want sex because they care and want to show it. Men also don't like to rush a woman. If you are feeling rushed into sex, say so. Men respect women who are wanting to wait.

Waiting for sex is not a bad thing. There are a few bad ones out there to look out for that will push or pressure you. Letting go of the few bad ones is not a bad thing at all. It's actually a very good thing because it let's him know you won't be taken advantage of.

2. He's not affectionate... because his love for you is so strong.

Love is felt in different ways. It can just be a close connection with a friend or you can love someone you are related to. When in a relationship love can become so strong it can affect a person physically. A person can feel a love so strong that they have a difficult time being affectionate. They may even have a difficult time looking at you because all he thinks about is sex. That mainly because you are the most beautiful girl he has ever seen.

3. Men don't analyze anything...end of discussion.

While women have a tendency to analyze a situation, a man will say that "that's that". Men don't like to analyze and carry on an argument. Men will make their point and end the conversation. It's not that he doesn't want to work anything out or he doesn't care about the situation. He just doesn't want to keep arguing and working out an issue he doesn't see as a big deal.

Men are the type that will make their point and move on. A lot of women may think he's either trying to avoid the topic or that he doesn't want to work on the issue. Reality is that he just wants to make his point and not argue about it. He cares about you...just not a small problem.

4. Men have feelings.

While men may think with their dicks, they also love with their hearts. Most men have a big heart and really love and care for someone they are with. Men also want to be with someone they can discuss their feelings with. Women sometimes can have a hard time understanding these feelings.

When a man becomes a father, for example, the mother is mainly focused on the newborn. He may develop feelings of loneliness, fear, abandonment, and depression. Some women are very uncompassionate about these feelings. Some men may feel the need to go elsewhere. Even though this isn't right it does happen. When dealt with properly he will eventually come to bond well. This doesn't happen overnight. It takes time.

5. Men always start with no experience.

We all want a satisfying sexual experience. But this comes with time. When you are first with a man it may or may not be the best. Sex is physical for a man and emotional for a woman. A man can have sex with a woman he can't stand and it be the best he ever had. For a woman it's different. A woman must first have a deep emotional connection with him before it can become satisfying.

Love making is not about skill. It's about connecting and showing love to someone you are with. If a woman is looking for a man with sexual skill she is looking for the wrong thing. There is no skill needed for sex. Only the emotions that come between two people make it a good experience. Men learn the longer that they are with you. Give him some time.

In conclusion, I want to go over a few tips to help better your relationship with a man.

1. When you are feeling rushed into sex, say so. Be respectful but firm. If he still gives you pressure let him go.

2. Communicate using the I statement when angry or hurt.

3. Don't accuse him of cheating because he goes out after work ever so often. Going out ever so often is a good thing for him as well as for yourself.

4. Don't expect a man to just have male friends. Let him have female friends as well.

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