Advice for Wiccans. Love spells

Let's face it. We as wiccans would love to be able to perform spells that more experienced wiccans tell us not to perform. Spells such as getting our ex back, making someone we have a crush on fall in love with us, and even spells to scare away new lovers in their lives. But no matter the reason for why you would want to do these types of spells you must remember as a wiccan the law harm none. This does also imply manipulating others to do your will, including falling in love with you. Many people want their exes back. But once a relationship is over and our exes have made up their minds, it's best to accept it as it is.

Heartbreak is hard to face. It's one of the greatest pains we face in life as human beings. Sometimes we love someone so much it difficult to face it when the passion and the love you shared it over. It's even more difficult when they find someone new that they have fallen in love with and it seems like you are totally forgotten. We sometimes find a hard time accepting new loves into our life. We don't seem to share the same type of passion and closeness we shared with the person we loved most. But what will make it even harder is when a spell is performed to make your ex lover come back to you as it is manipulating the persons free will. There are some things you can do as a wiccan, or for someone else, that will help you get through these times.

1. Do a self healing spell- We need to take time to heal before we find new love. A good idea would be to perform a self healing spell to heal the broken heart you have. This is a good way to being fresh in finding new love. Take the time to plan your spell. Decide how you will perform the spell. Then do it. Set your intentions on healing your broken heart.

2. Do some scrying- Scrying tells the future. The more you practice scrying, the more results you will get. You can do this with a black glass ball, or with just a candle or a glass of water. Scrying is a form of divination and is for foretelling the past, present, and future. It will give you some insight on what to do or will even tell you who the right one is. You never know. Love may come back around.

3. Do a spell for new love- We all need new love in our lives. We don't want to focus on a particular person but we can focus on the type of relationship we want to have. If we are looking for someone with the type of personality we love we can narrow our focus on that during our spell.

4. Don't be specific- We may be attracted to certain types of people but we don't want to be specific about a certain person. We can look at the types of people we are attracted to but when it comes to finding new love we don't want it to be someone specific

5. Be choosy- When it comes to doing a love spell you want to be choosy about the type of person you want. Their personality, humor, etc. Most likely you won't want someone who is like you ex because if it didn't work out with them it is most likely it won't work out with someone who is like them.

Remember as wiccans we don't perform negative magic and performing a spell to get your ex back is manipulation of someone else's emotions. Remember the law harm none. Do positive magic and your spell will be blessed with joy.