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Epic love stories and relationships as depicted in pop culture, though it rarely turns out like that in real life.
Unhealthy Expectations of Fictional Romances
Whilst reading and watching TV shows and movies are great ways to wind down after a stressful day of work, or a way of distracting yourself when going through tough times, placing too much emotional investment in fictional characters and their relationships can have a dramatic effect on the way we perceive real-life connections with others.
Anna PembreyPublished 7 years ago in HumansPride 2017
This is a little late, but I wanted to post it anyway. You can check it out on my tumblr, too. I am a trans queer guy and this year I am not just celebrating pride for myself, I am celebrating for everyone who can’t. I’m celebrating for the people that live in countries that kill queer people. I am celebrating pride for the people that live in religious homes that criticize and demean queer individuals. I am celebrating for the people whose lives were taken last year by a homophobic racist. Rest in peace, Orlando victims.
Because Their Expectations Are Not What You Need to Focus On
I can't say that I understand what women go through, but as a dude who dates dudes, I can say that I understand the expectation that guys have had for me: to be smooth all over, have my hair and outfit perfect, keep my skin 100% blemish free, put out — all the time — or risk losing their interest.
Joffery HollsworthPublished 7 years ago in HumansWhy I Read Harry Potter to My Boyfriend
When I tell people that my boyfriend and I have a habit of reading the Harry Potter books to each other, the response is usually mixed. Some people think it's the most adorable thing in the world, others first look at me for a second to gauge whether I'm serious, and then make it quite plain (whether verbally or nonverbally) that I have just dropped ten steps down their esteem-ladder.
Merel van 't HooftPublished 7 years ago in HumansMatrimonial Machinations
Matrimonial Machinations "If you had listened to me, we would have been here on time!" Lena snapped as she struggled to adjust the sash on her coral sundress. Edward freely exercised his right to remain silent. Thirteen years of marriage had produced four wonderful children, along with enough arguments to last a lifetime. He knew that they had a snowball's chance in hell of winning $200,000 on the latest reality show, Love and Marriage, but it was worth a shot. Edward could only hope that the other couples would make them look like the Ozzie and Harriet viewers were looking for.
Michael LenzyPublished 7 years ago in HumansThinking Back I - Bullies
Do you remember the time in primary school, secondary or even college? The time when you felt like every morning you have to go to a Big Brother's house where everyone will be looking at you, judging, waiting for you to slip so they could eliminate you? Where everything was a reason for someone to take a piss out of you. The way you dress, music you like, your grades being too low or too high. Being a girl, hanging out with mainly boys in secondary school made you a slut, and it didn't matter whether you slept with every single one of them or were a virgin, you were still a slut. Being a boy and hanging out with girls either made a sex god or a wuss, it all depended on what other "sins" you've committed, gods forbid you had great grades and read a lot of books. Everything seemed to be a reason to spread rumours, call you names, laugh at you, shun you and even if you did do something great nobody ever cared.
Veronica HunterPublished 7 years ago in HumansWhy Are Men Weird About Strong Women?
I was 17 years old when they discovered the brain tumor. The size of a pea, it rested in the right temporal lobe, close to my ear. It had been slowly growing and gradually plaguing me and everyone I loved for almost a year, when the strange behavior first began at the start of my senior year of high school.
Liz LaPointPublished 7 years ago in HumansWhy Women Are Avoiding Dating and Marriage
For years, we have heard of the Men Going Their Own Way movement online. It's a movement that basically says that men get the "raw end" of the dating deal and that women are just no longer worth marrying for one reason or another. The movement itself is one that has long been known for its hatred of women, its inability to see women as people with feelings, and its highly vocal base that says that love is dead.
Mackenzie Z. KennedyPublished 7 years ago in HumansPresident Trump And First Lady Sleep In Separate Beds?
There are several reasons why someone might not sleep in the same bed as their spouse. Snoring. Illness. Different shifts. There does not need to be a dramatic reason that might cause two individuals to no longer share a bed, as has been suggested as far as President Donald Trump and his wife Melania Trump are concerned.
Christina St-JeanPublished 7 years ago in HumansRevisiting 'Her'
I want to take a moment to appreciate the brilliance of Her. Starring Joaquin Phoenix and Scarlett Johansson as the voice of Samantha, we follow a man as he falls in love (and out of love) with a computer designed to fulfill his specific needs. The story that Jonze tells is original and profound, yet does not seem far off from the world we live in today. Everywhere I go I am speed-walking past folks with their eyes on their phones, moving at a glacial pace.
Marina Caitlin WattsPublished 7 years ago in HumansColin Mochrie On Supporting His Transgender Daughter
Whose Line Is It Anyway? performer Colin Mochrie has shown how what has been a difficult process for so many families should be handled.
Christina St-JeanPublished 7 years ago in Humans