humanity
For better or for worse, relationships reveal the core of the human condition.
13 Beliefs I Stopped Holding But Still Haunt Me
All of us know at least a dozen people who do not share all of our beliefs. With over 7 billion of us, there is bound to be conflict. I can agree to disagree on topics like the correct way of hanging toilet paper or whether pineapple is an acceptable pizza topping (it is, btw).
Katharine ChanPublished 5 months ago in HumansHate...
I left my toxic and abusive ex-husband over a year ago at this point and I've done a lot to try to heal and recover from not only that trauma but my childhood trauma as well. I've worked hard over the past three years to look at every aspect of myself and notice not only where I was damaged and broken but where I went wrong too. I've tried very hard to own up to my faults and take responsibility where it was mine to take. That being said I know that everything I did in the toxic relationship with my ex was not perfect because for one it's called reactive abuse. You can only take it for so long before you start giving it back. The next thing is that I am human and I am prone to making mistakes and my decisions and thought patterns were not always the greatest. However, everything I did and/or said or didn't say had a reason and most people only know the tip of the iceberg when it comes to what happened between my ex and myself. Also, that's just it, isn't it? No one except who was in the house truly knows what happened. I have my story which I've told and I have a right to tell and he has his. The abuse that I and my children suffered in that home was real and was not made up by any means. I don't have to explain this to anyone I know but because of poor mental health and comments like this I for some reason feel as if I need to explain. This comment I'm assuming was taken down either by Vocal or the author herself yesterday but I got to read it through my emails. This is from my ex-sister-in-law and this is called victim blaming/shaming. I was already feeling stressed due to the holiday season and the financial burden that it puts on one especially when you have children and then I read this. I just can't help but wonder why. Why as another woman would you intentionally seek out another woman to tear her down? I mean I would never. I feel as women we should always be building each other up because being a woman is hard enough as it is so even if you don't like said woman then just don't say anything but don't intentionally seek her out to try and destroy her. Also, as a Christian, I do not feel I have the right to tell another Christian that they are being hypocritical or "need Jesus." Everyone's journey is different and you calling into question their walk with Jesus is just not right in the least little bit. I'm not saying I'm perfect or was the perfect wife to her brother or the perfect stepmother to her nephews but I did try my best and no, I did not blatantly to their faces call the children mean names such as saying they were fat. Most of the time, the boys called themselves that and I told them not to do that. When you only have one side of the story it's hard to see the whole picture but I suppose it's also hard to see the whole picture when you just don't want to. I know nothing I say will matter and everything I say will just go in one ear and out the other because you've already picked your villain and that's fine but all I want is to be left alone. I'm trying to heal over here, I'm trying to find my peace, I'm trying to not stare at every red truck in town afraid that it might be him ready to run me down, I'm trying to not start shaking violently, and getting sick to my stomach every time his name or any of his family's name comes up because the fear lives just beneath the surface edge so please just go away. If you have any sort of decency about you at all please just leave me alone and I will leave you alone as well. I'm not sharing your name, but things like this? This is part of my domestic violence story and I will share it. You were right about one thing though, I'm not a victim- I'm a survivor.
Lindsey AltomPublished 5 months ago in HumansI'M JUST AN AVERAGE PERSON
In the range of north of fifty years, I've seen more than most do in a very long term lifetime. It's a strange acknowledgment — having experienced scenes of viciousness, maltreatment in its many structures, and the disrupting give up on habit. I've seen the grotesqueness of human way of behaving, where equity appeared to be a tricky idea. However, I'm simply a standard individual, attempting to explore life true to form by society. What separates us from others? Maybe deflecting our look, condemning those caught in lamentable circumstances is our propensity.
shena mchenryPublished 5 months ago in HumansReactions 70-Year Old Ugandan Having Twins Now Has 3 Children Under 3; Shows Cultural & Moral Differences From Africans To Westerners
Monday, 4 December 2023 By: TB Obwoge Several Africans were overjoyed and praising God for a 70-year old women getting IVF (In vitro fertilization).
IwriteMywrongsPublished 5 months ago in HumansCan one billion Oysters save New York City
Can One Billion Oysters Save New York City? In a world continually wrestling with the repercussions of climate change, the profound impact of warming oceans and the rising tides is unmistakably evident. This narrative intensifies the ferocity and devastation of storms, creating a critical dilemma for the residents of a vast city nestled within a sprawling archipelago. Tackling the imminent threats posed by pollution, dwindling ecosystems, and the deluge of climate-induced super storms and floods emerges as an urgent and pressing matter. Unexpectedly, an unconventional remedy steps onto the scene: oysters—a staggering billion of these shellfish.
Alfred NyarkoPublished 5 months ago in HumansSiblings Change
One of the best parts of my life, hands down, is my relationship with my siblings. We were thick as thieves growing up, both as individual parts and as a trio. Since I moved away from home, I've only seen them a handful of times when I went home for the holidays. So this Thanksgiving was a special treat.
Janis RossPublished 5 months ago in HumansWhispers of Eternity
In the quiet town of Serenity Springs, where time seemed to move at a gentler pace, lived a woman named Emily. Her days were filled with the soft rustling of leaves, the distant melody of a stream, and the comforting embrace of the rolling hills that cradled the town.
Hasnain0718Published 5 months ago in HumansHow Are Movies Made?
Movies have become an integral part of modern culture, serving as a powerful medium of storytelling, entertainment, and artistic expression. The process of making a movie is a complex and collaborative effort that involves the convergence of various creative and technical elements. From the initial conception of an idea to the final cut on the big screen, the journey of a film is a fascinating exploration of artistic vision, technological innovation, and teamwork.
Okosisi GreatPublished 5 months ago in HumansWhat Happens If You Get Rabies?
Rabies, a viral disease transmitted through the bite of an infected animal, has long been a dreaded affliction due to its almost invariably fatal outcome. Caused by the rabies virus, the disease targets the nervous system, leading to a cascade of symptoms that culminate in severe neurological dysfunction. Understanding the progression and consequences of rabies infection is crucial for prompt intervention and prevention measures.
Okosisi GreatPublished 5 months ago in HumansUnmasked
The version of me you get, depends entirely on you. I never thought of it as masking, even though I have a child on the Autism Spectrum and have learned a lot about masking as a whole. However, looking back on my life, so many things have started to make sense. It was surprising on one hand, but not entirely shocking, when I decided to take a closer look at myself.
E.N. GusslerPublished 5 months ago in HumansUnlocking the Mind's Marvels
The human brain, an intricate masterpiece housed within our craniums, is a testament to the unparalleled complexity of nature. Its labyrinthine network of neurons and synapses orchestrates the symphony of our existence, governing thoughts, emotions, and actions. This article embarks on an exploration of this cognitive powerhouse, delving into its intricate functions, the wonders it enables, and the imperative need for its care and nourishment.
Osvaldo MiesesPublished 5 months ago in HumansWhat If Humanity Became Type 7 Civilization?
Humanity's quest for progress and advancement has long been a subject of fascination and speculation. The Kardashev scale, a conceptual framework developed by Nikolai Kardashev, has been instrumental in envisioning the evolution of civilizations based on their technological prowess. Known for delineating types 1 through 5, this scale has also piqued curiosity regarding the hypothetical existence of type 6 and type 7 civilizations, realms that transcend our current understanding.
Suresh ChandPublished 5 months ago in Humans