Some people love love is lost?

My friend asked me:

"Do you think when two people are together for a long time, the love fades and the sleep gets tired?"

I don't think so, really love a person, never love enough, also sleep enough.

Every day I fall asleep in love with each other, and the first second I open my eyes, my heart still beats.

As Mr. Shen Congwen said in his love letter to his wife:

"We love each other all our lives, but it's too short."

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Read this passage:

"Sex, sleep only once or twice, is a physiological impulse; Sleep for a while, is a moment of joy; Never getting enough sleep is the love of life."

Deeply think, do not love you, never want to be your pillow for life, he just want to have a "sleep" relationship with you.

Just like "30" in the "sea king" Liang Zhengxian, early his "do", let us because he is true love for Wang Manni.

It turns out that his goal was just to get some sleep.

On the cruise ship, Liang Zhengxian asked Wang Manni to eat, make romantic send her bracelet.

He would take Wang Manni to dive in Vanuatu waters to see shipwrecks; Will buy her a car so she can go to work; Take her in and out of fancy clubs, help her broaden her horizons.

But no matter how false, it is always false, it can not cover up the truth behind.

Liang Zhengxian's fiancee came to the door, no matter whether Wang Manni knows he has the original match, go up is a humiliation, and Liang Zhengxian only reaction is to flee.

In the face of such a terrible situation, she finally realized: no matter how good to you, not necessarily for you is true love, just want to sleep with you.

In this world, there are too many people who just want to go kidney not heart.

If the other person just wants to sleep with you, then ask him to leave.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~②~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~There is a couple in my circle of friends, they have been together since junior high school, the first year out of college, they got married.

After more than ten years together, their love is as strong as ever.

Girls often share pictures of their daily life, sometimes cooking at home together, in their moments.

Sometimes when she gets home and sees her husband buying it for her, she feels surprised and takes a picture of it and sends it to her moments to remember it.

Occasionally squabble, she will also take screenshots to share the chat records of the two people, open and dark show, said that this person is getting bolder, dare to speak so loudly.

See two people's feelings are always so good, others who do not envy.

And then one time she asked me for help, and I said,

"You've been together for so many years, don't you really get tired of being together almost every day?"

She told me:

"When your eyes are full of someone, you can never get tired of liking and loving him."

True love a person, is how not tired of seeing, love is not enough.

Of course, after a long time together, the relationship will inevitably tend to dull.

Every relationship, go to a certain period, always return to insipid, not always full of romance and passion.

But the novelty will be less, and the love won't be any less.

As Yu Feihong said in Mr. Big:

"True love is not when you are impatient and immediately go to another person, but when you are with the person you love, resist the boredom after the passion is gone."

True feelings, must stand the witness of time.

You'll want to spend every minute of the rest of your life with him, for decades.

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Here's a question on Zhihu:

"What is your ideal love?"

There are many sweet love stories below, but one sentence struck a chord with me:

"Even at 80 they flirt and fall asleep hugging each other."

I think two people who really love each other, that's it.

There is no greasy or greasy feeling, only love or not love.

Love a person, is willing to accompany him to say a lot of nonsense, willing to do a lot of boring things with him.

Always longing to hear his voice, always looking forward to a full hug, always wanting to feel his temperature.

Love a person, not on the spur of the moment, but the company of forever.

I think, as long as you have hope, one day you will meet that can cherish the heart of the person, worthy of your slowly like, slowly love.

But before that, we need to keep moving forward so that when we meet the right person, we have the ability to turn a slow crush into a lasting love.

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~This is Antoine, and I hope you find pleasure in each of my articles~