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Truth About Online Dating with Foreign Women

By Andrea MolinaPublished 2 years ago 5 min read
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America has almost fifty million single men. That’s nearly half of the country’s total male population.

Plenty of them are men from the ages of 30 to 65. A lot of men think that by the time you reach a certain year, you’d be able to find a wife or at least be already married. In reality, not everyone is lucky enough to find love and settle down.

A recent survey on American adults says that most of them find dating difficult. For them, dating has gotten harder in the last decade. Looking for a woman to marry is even more difficult. This situation has been attributed to many different reasons, but whatever the cause may be, the fact of the matter remains - a significant number of American men are single and lonely.

The Top Reasons for Dating Difficulties

Here are some of the reasons why men believe dating has become increasingly difficult:

They aren’t attractive enough

Poor looks, being short, or being bald are the most frequent reasons why American women reject men. Much of today’s society relies primarily on physical attraction, so chances for those who are unfortunate enough to not be born pretty are low.

Women’s unrealistic expectations

So many local women have high standards when it comes to men they want to date. Empowered by feminism, their own pursuit of happiness -- while absolutely within their rights and personal freedoms -- comes easily with dissatisfaction. Their ideal man is someone within their age range, someone wealthy and successful, is nice and loyal and not to mention attractive.

Unfortunately, men aren't novel characters like these women believe. So if the man isn’t up to their standard, they reject him.

Keeping up with what’s modern

Dating today is different from what dating used to be years ago, and some men have trouble keeping up with that. Internet dating is, in some ways, an online version of speed-dating. A man virtually meets a girl, they talk for a bit, find out each other’s interests, then move on if they don’t click.

Older men naturally want something more serious than that. Unfortunately, most American women are not only picky, they also take to modern dating a lot quicker than most older men.

So they turn to dating foreigners

Back in 2013, a report regarding married people showed that one out of every five households consists of one American and one foreigner. That is about 21% of the total marital population. About 40% of these foreign spouses came from Latin America while a fourth of that came from both Europe and Asia.

This appeal of having a spouse that hails from a different country takes into account that all of us have different preferences. Some men simply prefer to date foreign women. Others prefer to marry a foreign woman because of her exotic attributes, attitude towards family, and values not found among western women.

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Whatever your personal preference, there’s a better chance for you to find an ideal woman overseas than in your area. This is also the reason why many men are choosing to join the singles tour.

What is a singles tour?

In addition to conventional online dating, where you scroll through girls’ profiles, a singles tour allows you to meet many foreign women face to face. In these tours, you will discover like-minded women who desire to have committed relationships rather than flings.

These tours take about a week in a foreign country which you choose to sign up to. It’s a week-long vacation in which you will be able to meet hundreds of single women who have marriage in mind. The Socials are the highlight of these tours, an event where you are introduced and given the chance to mingle with hundreds of the country’s local women.

The entire event consists of you and other fellow men who are looking for a serious partner or bride, the hundreds of women to meet, the matchmakers, translators and local staff that are on standby. You do not need to worry about not knowing what you’re supposed to do. You will be well-assisted throughout the entire event.

Aside from the Socials is the City Tours. Here, you get to bring a woman of your choice from the socials and tour the country’s top destinations with her. It is an ideal vacation as you get to go sightseeing, explore a place you’ve never gone to before while simultaneously going on a date with a local lady.

In this video, you can see a glimpse of a singles tour to Medellin, Colombia. Here, men from all over the United States are participating in the socials and tours as an opportunity to meet and date women from Colombia. With people with the same goals and mindset coming in droves for these tours, one is bound to find their soulmate there.

Testimonials from clients

"It was very easy because I’ve had a lot of experience with Latin culture in my military career and I’ve always appreciated the friendliness and warmth of Latino people. It was extremely easy for me to talk to her because I knew quite a bit already and I knew the questions I wanted to ask her." _David

"Hello John:

I have to tell you. I have been working with Maria this week and I can't say enough great things about her. She has been very communicative as we are working through the dating process. I was amazed that it was only one week ago that she and I met to see what I was looking for and do the video and already I have had a date every day since Tuesday.

Already with the three women that I have dated, 2 out of the 3 would be very easy to get to know and date. All I can say is this week I have 7 dates scheduled which is more dates than I have ever had in my life. The next few months are going to be a lot of fun and excitement. I have complete trust and I am not sure what your guiding principles are but I am sure that one of them is ""We do what we say we are going to do and we do the best we can for the clients"".

Have a great day. And here is to much love and success. -cheers -" _Bill

"Although we are not engaged, this suits us both, I have made the mistake of rushing in too fast with relationships previously. This time that has not been possible. We hope to meet again soon, I can not wait to get Lily here in the summer. I want to show her around, and there are so many things I want to do with her. She has never been on a motorbike, but is keen to try. We both love animals too. I have never been married, and have lived on my own for 29 years, this will mean big changes for me, I feel that I am ready for this, I always wanted a proper courtship, I am very confident that my journey is over. Lily is just right for me, I want a balanced relationship and have a lot of love to give her, Thank you John for everything. I have had a ball. And now I have everything. You take care

Kind regards, Ray" _Ray

No more loneliness

Are you one of the millions of American men struggling to find a partner? If you are, this is our olive branch to you. Join our tours and find the woman of your dreams.

You have nothing to lose, after all.

Andrea Molina, Professional Matchmaker and Dating Consultant for Colombian Woman

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Professional Matchmaker and Dating Consultant for Colombian Woman

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