RANT: To All the “Nice Guys” I Passed up for CHAD

This is my letter to the men of MGTOW, the MRA, the INCELS, the woman bashing “HOTEPS,” and the men who I've seen talking crap about all the “lonely” women who are 30+ years old and single.

Most importantly, this is going out to the self-proclaimed “Nice Guys.” The men who I see bewailing how “stupid” women keep passing up “Nice Guys” (like them) to date “Bad Boys” and “Chads.”

In China, unmarried women who are 27 years old and up are called “leftover women” and naturally, western men of all races and cultures have adopted this slur to shame western women for not being married. Never mind that most of them are not married either and seem to be the ones going crazy from loneliness.

Well, I’m the one you are talking about. I’m a 40-year-old western woman and I’ve never been married. I’m a real human being, though you wouldn’t know it by all the foul and hate-filled things you say about women like me.

I was attractive in my younger days. I had no shortage of men chasing after me. But what did all that banging body of mines amount too?

I mean, I’m still not bad for 40. But, I’m just saying, like, theoretically what did it get me?

It got me Chad.

And Chad was dope.

And I’m confused now. According to you guys, I was supposed to be sitting here in my room DROWNING in my tears, UGLY crying over all the “nice guy” bullshit artist who I “foolishly” turned down to date men that are pleasant to be around, like CHAD.

Actually, I’m here smiling about the memories I had with Chad and wondering what he’s up to these days.

Chad was fun. He made me enjoy life even more for short while. His love helped me learn about myself and men in so many different ways. Also, Chad made me feel special and loved for who I was as an individual.

I did end up breaking up with Chad, a decision I still don’t regret. But the time I was with Chad was awesome…

…until he started listening to you guys.

You ruined Chad.

I actually see this same pattern with multiple "Chads" I had relationships with. Chad starts taking dating and relationship advice from bitter single men. Like vampires, you turn men in relationships into bitter single men just like you.

Why the HELL do men who have girlfriends go to their dumbass single AF friends for relationship advice? I never get that! It makes no sense but we both know Chad is a creative type. He’s not a logician.

You told Chad all about “how to keep me in line” and how a woman is “supposed to behave in a relationship” and all kinds of idiotic bullshit about “evolution” WTF?

I’ve never been happier to be a Creationist.

Chad started acting like an entitled asshole. He started treating me like I only existed to serve his ego. He forgot that I was his friend and his partner, and he started seeing me through the eyes of men whose heads are all jacked up from selfishness and porn.

He started focusing more on my gender and less on our actual relationship.

So, I ran away from Chad. Just like I (supposedly) ran away from guys like YOU.

I spent my entire life running away from guys like you. I will never get married to men who refuse to see a woman's humanity and treat her like a true friend and partner. I made the right choice in avoiding guys like you and remaining single.

How did I find my Chad? We were friends first. I got to know him and he got to know me and we just clicked together.

But remember, you guys HATE the friendzone.

Women exist only to serve you sexually. Anytime you act as a “friend” to a woman you are expecting something in return, in the form of sex or romantic relationships.

Guys like you are too busy plotting and trying to figure out how to manipulate a woman. You trade PUA tactics. Practice “negging.” Anything to “bend her to your will” no matter how much it would hurt or destroy her.

All you seem to be doing with your life is trying to figure out the right formula of words to say and things to do that will get you sex out of any woman you desire.

Chad was natural. He doesn’t make girls feel like some sucker who fell for his PUA scams. We actually had fun together as friends until he started listening to you guys.

You ruined Chad by turning him into nice guy bullshit artist, like you.

So, ya’ll can go relax. I don’t regret not dating the men who I never dated. Even if a few of them were really nice guys. I don’t know them so why would I waste time wondering “what if” with guys I didn’t even know?

I’m happy even though I’m single. Sure, it gets lonely. Even married people get lonely, you know? But I don’t regret dating the men I did date, even if I eventually ended the relationships.

Because I dated Chad.

And Chad was DOPE.

/Rant

((P.S. I never actually dated a guy named Chad. But you get the point.))