Parents and young adults relationships

Growing up as an only child, I could describe the relationship between my parents and I with many words such as memorable, closely-knit and comfortable. That no matter what the case might be, my parents would always have the right answer to everything and they would just make everything better , I’ll remember the long strolls with father in the evenings, the way my mother would carry me with so much gentleness, how I loved those moments, to me my parents were my heroes and my best friends.

Then as I became a teenager, I began to see my parents as strict, controlling, overprotective, unsupportive and annoying, it felt like nothing I did was ever good enough, it was like no one was listening whenever I was talking. It was always about just listening and doing as I was told regardless of if it made me happy or not.

• However there are ways parents and young adults can build healthier and stronger relationships. In parents and young adults relationships both parties should be able to communicate, one talks while the other listens and vice versa and be able to find a common ground, most parents these days don’t even know who their kids are, they just see the versions of what their kids wants them to see. Both parents and children should respect each other’s boundaries, i.e having and open communication about what each person is comfortable with and respecting each other’s decisions and being understanding and supportive when boundaries are set. Parents should understand that young adults are trying to establish their own identities, they are trying to figure out their likes and dislikes, their strengths and their weaknesses, and their values and beliefs, it’s a time when they may question their the beliefs and values that they were raised with, and it means parents being patient and understanding when they make mistakes and take risks, and by being their to offer support and guidance when they need it.

Young adults also should be open and honest with their parents, Being open and honest with parents means communicating with them in a truthful and transparent way. It means sharing your thoughts, feelings, and experiences with them, even if it's difficult or uncomfortable. For young adults, being open and honest with their parents can help build trust and strengthen their relationship. It also means being willing to listen to their parents' advice and guidance, and being open to feedback and constructive criticism. By being open and honest with their parents, young adults can build a strong foundation for a healthy and supportive relationship, and can develop the skills they need to communicate effectively with others throughout their lives.

In addition young adults should respect their parents' rules while under their roof because it shows that they value their parents' guidance and are willing to follow their lead. It also helps to maintain a peaceful and harmonious home environment, and can prevent conflicts and misunderstandings. While young adults may be eager to assert their independence and make their own decisions, it's important to remember that their parents have their best interests at heart and have more life experience to draw from. By respecting their parents' rules, young adults can show that they are responsible and trustworthy, and can build a strong foundation for a respectful and supportive.

Lastly Giving young adults the space to learn and grow, allowing them to make their own choices and decisions, and giving them the freedom to explore their interests and passions. It means trusting them to make responsible choices, even if they make mistakes along the way. For parents, giving young adults space to learn and grow can be challenging, especially if they are used to being in control or have a strong desire to protect their children from harm. However, it's important to remember that young adults need the freedom to make their own mistakes and learn from them, in order to develop the skills and confidence they need to succeed in life.

In conclusion, it's important for young adults and their parents to work together to build strong and supportive relationships. By communicating openly and honestly, respecting each other's boundaries, and giving each other the space to learn and grow, young adults and their parents can develop a deep and meaningful bond that will last a lifetime. While the transition into adulthood can be challenging, it's also a time of great opportunity and growth, and by working together, young adults and their parents can navigate this exciting and transformative time with confidence and grace.