My Ex Reads My Messages But Doesn't Reply (How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend / Girlfriend Text You Back)

There are generally two categories of lovers.

One, who are doers-- real lovers-- and not talkers, which is, as it should ideally be. They probably do not believe in applying the age old judicial saying that justice should not only be done, but it must be made to appear as having been done.

They do the things silently, almost stealthily for their loved ones. They sacrifice their time, convenience and money for their happiness and welfare, but shy away from talking about or demonstrating their acts. Unfortunately, the beneficiaries of such deeds sometimes don't even realize who has done so much for them. It is not always possible to read the heart of a person. The actual deeds of love remain under wraps forever.

The second category of lovers consists of those who do 'lip service' only, both literally and figuratively, and manage to keep their lovers happy and satisfied. Such people usually do not take the break-ups seriously and try to move on.

Do you belong to the first category of silent lovers? Did your ex dump you despite the fact you loved them with all your heart and soul? It only proves you were not a practical guy.

What you should have done, but did not do

You must know that a little pep talk proves like icing on the cake. It infuses energy into your relationship. You should appreciate the little things that your lover does for you or in normal routine. You should, for example, comment on their figure, looks, eyes, lips and so on; praise their culinary skills; commend their helpful suggestions and offer little presents as tokens of love for what they do for you.

On your part, there is absolutely no harm, for example, in telling your loved one that you sold your watch to buy a comb for her long tresses.

You, however, stopped short of telling such things because you did not believe in them. You thought they were unnecessary tokenism.

Why did your ex dump you?

The original euphoria in love tends to cool down to a realistic level after sometime, but your partner continues to expect the same level warmth that they enjoyed in the initial days of love. The same thing may have happened in your relationship as well.

As the things started losing their original shine, your ex probably got a call from their ex. The memory of the 'good old times' came rushing back highlighting the dullness that sometimes marks the present.

Some people take the decisions impulsively, in a fit of emotion. They jump the fence and then the gravity of the consequences of their action dawns upon them. By this time it becomes difficult to retrace their steps because of the ego problems.

How to get your ex back?

If you are sure, you did nothing to aggrieve your partner and that their decision to break up was hasty, you have very good reason to hope that your ex will come back to you sooner than later. You have only to provide them face saving excuse to come back without hurting their ego.

You should, however, wait for some time. It will not only give your ex sufficient time to cool down and plan a right move for a come back, but also whet up their appetite for your love. The more they are made to wait, the more they will regret their mistake and resolve never to commit it in future.

As a true lover, you too should realize that every human being is likely to make mistakes and be given a respectable reason, a loop hole to make amends. You may send feelers through your mutual friends that you have the same warmth for them and are willing to forget and forgive. You should also be willing to admit your own role in the breakup if you are unaware of it and if it is pointed out to you.

Whatever be the cause of your breakup with your lover, it may be infidelity, loss of interest and dispute for whatever reason, your relationship can be brought back to old love and warmth.

Get Your Ex to Text You Back and Then Win Them Back Soon Afterwards

Is there any way you can get your ex to text you back right away and then run back into your arms soon afterwards? Well, texting can generally be a delicate and tricky thing, so you should know that no single text message exists out there that you can use to get your ex right away. While it is possible to use texts to get your ex to text you back right away, you will need a bigger plan to actually win them back in the end - remember that.

Here are the things that you need to incorporate into your texts if you want to get your ex to text you back whenever you text them:

1. A Sincere Apology

If the breakup was your fault or if you have committed any mistakes when you guys were in a relationship, you need to take responsibility for those things, be mature and say sorry. A good apology text would be one that is honest, short and sincere, and which doesn't sound needy or desperate at all.

2. An Understanding Message

You need to text your ex at some point and show them that you are alright with the breakup - even if you aren't. You basically just need to tell your ex that you know why you had to break up and that you are fine despite the initial heartbreak. Let them know that you don't have any hard feelings, either, and that you are ready to move on, even if that means not having them in your life anymore. This is all just part of the bigger plan, though - don't worry.

3. A Cryptic Text

This is probably the most important kind of text that you will have to use if you want to get your ex to text you back. In fact, if you succeed at making your ex curious about your life, then you will already be much closer to winning them back. Try texting them and saying thank you for the favor that they did for you recently. Of course, if you text them this, you will have to have an actual favor ready in your head that you are thanking them for. If not, they will see right through you afterwards, and you won't just look like a desperate ex girlfriend; you may even lose your chances of winning them back altogether, too.

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