Most guys who want to flirt with you will ask you to borrow these things

Love is a tricky book, whether it is love or marriage, love is full of speculation, suspicion, trust and other contradictory factors. There must have been many sleepless nights before a relationship was confirmed and made public. This is the period of romance.

Often, flirting is a harbinger of impending love, a key step in the successful transition from friendship to romance.

Ambiguous, mixed with the temptation to each other's good feelings, to another person's words of comfort type interpretation, tease people's square inch.

If a man asks to borrow either of these things, be aware that he doesn't just want to "be friends" with you!

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Borrow daily necessities

Zhou Guoping once said, "All communication has a final limit that cannot be exceeded. This limit is not clear, but it is definite. All troubles and conflicts start from the unintentional attempt to break through this limit."

Before two people formally together, will go through a period of romance, mutual loans of daily necessities, on behalf of each other's feelings are heating up.

In the TV drama "No man in the second waste of youth", the heroine and Li Yu are childhood friends. Although the two people did not confirm the love relationship, the discerning people can see that their feelings are absolutely not so simple as ordinary friends.

Once, Li Yu home under self-study, she gave his insulated lunch box to Li Yu, let him help take back, by the way, let Li Yu tell her mother she water cup is broken, and buy a new one.

At this time Li Yu directly handed his water cup to the tying, and then she took over without saying a word unscrew the cup cover to drink a mouthful of water, the whole action is flowing, not a little bit of caton, which shows that the two people have been sharing things, did not deliberately to do what to distinguish.

If a person wants to connect with others, there are many ways and means. One of the most noticeable is to borrow each other's daily necessities and personal effects.

But once they start sharing relatively personal items, the relationship becomes ambiguous, because only two people who trust each other and are close enough will "naturally" enter each other's lives.

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Borrow money

Read a netizen's self-statement: "A colleague asked me to borrow 1,000 yuan, later due to family reasons not enough time to pay back, asked me to borrow two thousand. Now I have no money, and I have given her all my salary. It is a strange fate."

Maugham once said, "Money is like a sixth sense. Without money, it is impossible to make full use of all the other senses."

Money can let us see the truth of many things, because it involves interests, so it can help us to see a person's heart the most true side.

In the TV drama Ode to Joy, Qu Xiaoxiao has a male bestie who likes her very much, but Qu Xiaoxiao is not interested in him. Therefore, he can only guard Qu Xiaoxiao's side as a friend.

When I learned that Qu Xiaoxiao wanted to start a company, I immediately helped her to make some contacts. I also told her that when she was short of money, she could borrow money from him and pay it back as soon as possible. But Qu Xiaoxiao knows how her male friend feels about her, so she never asks him for money.

When money is involved in borrowing, the relationship between them will take on a binding pattern, rather than the previous state of mutual debt.

After all, it's easy to pay back money, but hard to pay back favors.

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There is a line in the movie When Harry Met Sally that says, "There is no such thing as a heterosexual friend who either wants to seduce him or use him as a spare or simply enjoys the company of the opposite sex."

Heterosexual friends develop into lovers, is a very common phenomenon in the feelings, but if there is no intention to be together with each other, do not give each other ambiguous hope, if the two feelings are pleasant, then you can Pierce this layer of "window paper" while the iron is hot.

Finally, may we all have a warm heart partner, ambiguous is also exclusive to each other.

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~This is Antoine, and I hope you find pleasure in each of my articles~