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If Someone Constantly Says Bad Things About You, Then He Secretly Envies You

People are usually envious

By Colm WallerPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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If Someone Constantly Says Bad Things About You, Then He Secretly Envies You
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Most people have to deal with the envy of other people throughout their lives. Many times we do not realize that we have an envious person around us and that we should be alarmed about that man's presence in our lives.

Here are 12 signs that someone is jealous of you:

1. He always tries to ruin your plans

Whenever he sees that you are planning to do something, he makes every effort to destroy everything. This person behaves in a way that makes you nervous or upset if he is ready to admit it or not.

2. He likes to talk about ugly things about you

He's constantly trying to humiliate you. Turning the mosquito into a stallion gets in your way to point out your flaws.

3. He seems happy to see you resist defeat or you are sad

Looks like you get really happy when you're upset about something. In those moments when your mood drops to the lowest level, that person is simply in a great mood. Your failures allow the envious to feel the illusion of his superiority over you. Such a relationship cannot be called healthy.

4. He pretends to be your friend, but his falsehood is too obvious

He pretends to be a friend just to get you dirty. This person likes to tell others about your mistakes and problems but doesn't mention the good things you do. He's not as kind as he seems.

5. Always talk about his accomplishments

He only talks about it all the time. An envious person tries to manage everything for your

conversations and, whatever you say, always find a way to transfer the conversation itself.

6. He is trying to make you a close person

He notices when you do something interesting or reach new heights for yourself. But at the same time, the envious person is constantly trying to make you a person with a close mind and small abilities. You can be proud of your accomplishments, but he will never support you.

7. Always point out your mistakes

He always tries to make your mistakes known to others. If it turns out that you will do something worse for yourself by any action, he will always notice it and tell other people about the mistake. Your failures allow the envious to feel the illusion of superiority over you.

8. He is inclined to copy your actions

When an envious person sees that you are doing something, he tries to repeat it. He is constantly copying you, which can be quite unpleasant. At first, you try to close your eyes, but over time, his desire to repeat your actions begins to become very annoying.

9. It gives you especially bad advice

This person can give especially bad advice and then enjoy how you fail. Because he only thinks that you will make a mistake, if he has the opportunity to guide you on the wrong path, he will take this chance.

10. He makes false compliments

Instead of being honest with you, the envious person lies to you and gives you pseudo compliments to make you look ridiculous. On the outside, he may seem to be saying this out of politeness, but in fact, this person is trying to hurt you.

11. It shows you unreasonable displeasure

He doesn't love you and he doesn't hide his relationship. However, he has no reason not to love you. You've never done anything wrong to him, maybe you don't even know him well.

12. He is there when you fail

As soon as you start reliving the black path, the envious is right there. But if everything in your life is good, then you can't expect it, because your success is like a bone in his throat for him.

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