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If He Does These Things, He's Still IN LOVE With His Ex....

No woman wants to be second fiddle to a man, nor does she want to be the rebound of a relationship. To find out if he's still in love with his EX, these signs will help you figure it out.

By creatorsklubPublished 3 years ago 3 min read
If He Does These Things, He's Still IN LOVE With His Ex....
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If he's still very much hooked on his ex it can be very difficult for the relationship to move forward. If you both want to have a casual hookup, no problem. But if the dates start to become more frequent, you'd better figure it out so you don't get hurt.

Does he do these 5 things, be warned, he's still in love with his ex.

#5 Hates or loves his ex

If he tells you that he's still in love with his ex, it won't be necessary to find out anything... you decide what you'd rather do.

But if he's constantly badmouthing her, and he's got a lot of anger inside him, maybe it's also because he still loves her.

#4 He still has all the memories in his home

Pictures, stuffed animals, clothes... he still has memories of her in his home. Oops, maybe he's still completely in love with his EX.

Toothbrush? It could still all be very recent, or maybe they're still together sporadically.

#3 He only has sex with you

He doesn't text you, he doesn't ask you how you are... From one moment to the next he only calls you to meet up at night and have sex.

Maybe something has happened, maybe he's getting back together with his ex, or the memories with her won't fade from his memory.

#2 Wants an exclusive relationship NOW

The opposite may also be true. You go out twice and he is already declaring his love for you, watch out! Sometimes a man in love, after a breakup, can do anything to quickly forget about her.

Maybe you should think about the answer, don't let his anxiety get to you too, you can get hurt.

#1 He remains friends with his ex

When a relationship ends, it's not good to keep in direct contact. If he continues to be friends with his ex, it will only bring problems for you and the relationship. Maybe it's time to ask him what he wants.

So what should you do?

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1. Talk to your partner

Remember that communication is of utmost importance in all relationships, so try to have an honest conversation with your partner.

Point out the things that have made you suspect that his or her heart still belongs to the person who was once his or her partner. Listen to everything he/she has to say.

You should have a friendly tone of voice, otherwise you could cause tempers to flare and end up arguing.

2. Pay attention to all his body movements

Non-verbal language says more than words, so you should analyze each of his gestures.

If he looks away when you are talking, rubs his hands together, sweats or stutters when talking, there is a very good chance that he is lying.

3. Give him time

By having a sincere and mature conversation and since your partner is aware that you suspect that you are still in love with her ex, try to give her space to think things through and gain the courage to both accept the situation and confess what she feels.

4. Don't obsess about the other person

A relationship is a two-person relationship and even if your partner is involving a third person, this person has nothing to do with your problem.

So the best thing to do is to stop thinking about her/him. It doesn't matter if she/he is prettier, smarter or the things she/he could do better than you.

That person is special in your partner for the simple fact that he/she came first in your life and it has nothing to do with who is better than who.

5. Don't make demands

You may ask him/her not to see that person, to modify his/her behavior or other things, however he/she will listen to you for a few days, and then do it again.

Therefore, do not demand anything and let him do what his heart tells him to do. This way you will be able to check your suspicions.

Remember that the relationship should be free and telling your partner what to do is not healthy for the union.

6. Ending the relationship

In case you notice that your partner has too much interest in the other person and has neglected your relationship; talk too much about the other person and do things that give rise to infidelity such as dating and you think these are things that you can not stand, it is best to terminate the union.

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