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How to Handle Heartbreak: Advice from Real People Who've Been There

Handling Heartbreak

By Alain SaamegoPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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The experience of heartbreak can be one of the most painful and traumatic events that a person can go through. It is a feeling of loss and grief that can be caused by the end of a relationship, the death of a loved one, or any other type of devastating event.

Dealing with heartbreak can be one of the most difficult things a person ever has to do. It can feel like the end of the world, and it can be hard to imagine ever feeling happy again. However, there are ways to cope with heartbreak and to move on with your life. Here are a few tips on how to deal with heartbreak:

  • Give yourself time to grieve.

It is natural to feel sad and upset after a break-up. Allow yourself to express your feelings and don’t try to bottle them up.

The first step is to give yourself time to grieve. It is natural to feel a range of intense emotions after a traumatic event such as heartbreak. You may feel sad, angry, frustrated, or betrayed. It is important to allow yourself to experience these emotions, and to not try to suppress them. The average person takes around 2 years to fully recover from a traumatic event, so be patient with yourself and allow yourself the time you need to heal.

  • Don’t isolate yourself.

It can be tempting to stay in bed all day and avoid socializing, but it is important to have friends and family nearby to help you through this tough time.

It is also important to maintain healthy relationships with the people around you. This means staying connected to family and friends, and allowing them to support you. It can be tempting to isolate yourself after a traumatic event, but this can be counterproductive. Lean on the people who love you and allow them to help you through this difficult time.

  • Take care of yourself.

Eat healthy foods, get enough sleep, and exercise regularly. These things will help you to feel better physically and emotionally.

Another important step is to take care of yourself both physically and emotionally. This means getting exercise, eating healthy foods, and getting enough sleep. It may also be helpful to find an activity that you enjoy and can use as a form of self-care. This could be anything from painting to hiking to spending time with friends.

  • Talk to someone.

Talk to a friend or family member about how you're feeling, and look for any advice or support they might be able to offer. Consider talking to a therapist or counselor, who can help you process your emotions and work through the grieving process.

  • Move on.

There is no set time period for getting over a break-up, but eventually you will need to start moving on with your life. This doesn’t mean forgetting about the relationship or forgetting the person you were in the relationship with, but it does mean that you need to find ways to heal and to move forward.

Heartbreak is never easy to deal with. It feels like your whole world has come crumbling down. However, there are ways to deal with heartbreak and get through it. First, it is important to acknowledge your feelings and give yourself time to grieve. Secondly, you should surround yourself with positive people who will support you.

Finally, it is important to remember that there is life after heartbreak. The pain will gradually lessen over time, and you will eventually be able to move on. You are not alone in this process, and there are people who love and support you. Allow yourself to heal and to move on, and remember that there is a bright future ahead.

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Alain Saamego

Software engineer , Writer and Content Strategist at Selfgrow.co.uk

I'm a technology enthusiast, and I love learning about upcoming technologies. I also enjoy teaching and answering questions about new technologies.

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