Fate is over

Not all marriages are happy and good marriages. I have to say, some marriages are a kind of torment, a kind of torture.

Two people coming together, becoming a couple, is a fate, that should be cherished.

But when fate is over, when the marriage loses its meaning and value, it is better to learn to let go, and a person over.

That is a kind of redemption for themselves, but also a kind of relief is a relief from life, but also the soul.

"Rather demolish ten temples, not to destroy a marriage", no one wants to see the shattering of other people's marriages, can have room for redemption, are advised to salvage it, cherish it, and live a good life.

But when the marriage has been full of wreckage, has been full of pain, there is no room for redemption, you can not force people, there is no need to settle for the rest of your life, the time to put down, we must learn to put down.

Some people, the reason why they choose to settle, is for the sake of children, is to give children a complete home.

But unhappy marriage, full of gunpowder, full of the depressing smell of marriage, but will affect the physical and mental health of children, and not conducive to the growth of children, it is better to end.

One's own life, even if the marriage is not complete, but can give the child a happy, then it is also considered the best result.

I have to say, when these signs appear between the couple, is the end of fate, then it is better to live alone.

One: the words are not more than three sentences, can not say three sentences to quarrel.

Two people living together, to be honest, the quarrel is an inevitable thing, but a quarrel should also have a degree, not three days a big quarrel, two days a small quarrel.

It must be said that some couples, not only do not have feelings for each other, there is no understanding and tolerance, and the only thing left is boredom and resentment.

Then, the conflict will be constant, even if it is a trivial matter, but also can be a big fight, because already look at each other as disagreeable.

When two people, husband, and wife, do not move to quarrel, there is no longer a day of peace in the family, there is no longer warmth.

The family is supposed to be a warm harbor, a haven for two people, habitat for two people's hearts.

When there is no more harmony and warmth in the family, only quarrels, what can be felt in the family is no longer warmth, but aggravation and pain.

Normally, everyone is happy to run home after work, precisely because there is warmth at home.

But when the warmth in the family is no longer, it will become uncomfortable to go home, and even escape, will often find excuses not to go home, because they no longer want to fight, have been tired of fighting, can not fight, it is better to hide out.

When the couple, there is no understanding and tolerance, no understanding and relief, only boredom and resentment, only indifference and quarrels, then there is no point in going on, it is better to live alone, away from the smoke, but also their piece of peace.

Two: long-term in a cold war state, each other does not care, as if strangers.

The couple, the world's closest and most intimate people, the most should not talk to each other.

Whether it is happy or sad things, should be the first time to share or confide in, this is also the meaning of the existence of marriage, but also the value of the partner.

The best proof that the hearts of two people are together is to share or confide in each other, which is the best state of the couple.

But not all couples can love for life, have been the closest people.

I have to say, some couples, over and over, over into a neighbor, over into a stranger, or even better than a stranger.

Between each other, zero communication, zero communication, there is just love and answer, just a long cold war.

Perhaps a few days down, there is not a word between the two people, nor any emotional communication, the atmosphere of the family, like an ice cellar, is unusually depressing and cold.

Long-term cold war couples mean that the feelings are no longer there. Such a marriage, not only will be cold but also very tiring.

Even if we settle together and continue to live, we will not experience happiness and joy, but more heartache and sadness.

Then, instead of settling, it is better to leave, from then on a person to live well, and never have to look at the face of others.

Three: each lives their own lives, does not care about the other, and also does not care about each other.

In some marriages, the surface is a home the home has long been not a home, but each has its day, do not interact with each other, do not interfere.

Between two people, like two parallel lines, no longer have any intersection.

Each other, there is no communication, there is no concern, but each is busy with their things, as if they are a whole, they are home.

The other party's life, the other party's mood, and the other party's everything have nothing to do with themselves, do not care, and do not care.

A couple, but live as if they were neighbors, in fact, not even a neighbor, not even a greeting.

It is possible that in the eyes of outsiders, two people are a couple, a family, but in each other's hearts, has long been not a couple, early also not a family, just not for divorce procedures, just a nominal couple.

This has been the name of the marriage, to be honest, has been on behalf of the marriage broken, rather than maintaining the name of the marriage, it is better to dash away, and well start their own life alone.

Four: there has long been no couple of reality, or has long been a mental or physical betrayal.

The couple's bed together is not only a performance of love but also a way of emotional exchange.

The more deeply in love with the couple, the more they like to sleep in the same bed, and the more willing to sleep together, that is a kind of warmth, but also a solid, happiness that will fill the heart.

When the couple, physically began to resent and resist, no longer willing to close and contact, that is the feelings no longer, there is only hate and dislike.

Long and happy marriage, can not be separated from the reality of the couple, each skin-to-skin, can warm feelings, solid feelings so that no gap between the two people, and no distance.

And there is no couple of couples, the two hearts will be farther and farther away, there is just more disconnect and distance.

When the couple, is no longer willing to sleep together, no longer willing to be close, in fact, on behalf of the marriage has come to an end.

Especially when coupled with the case of betrayal by one party, it means that the marriage has no meaningful existence. Even if they are barely together, it is pain and suffering, and there will be no sweetness and happiness.

Then, long pain is better than short pain, early separation, and early out of the sea of suffering.

Not all couples, after the vows, can grow old.

It's not necessarily that you have to settle for life when you get married.

When the marriage does not go on, you may want to choose more than one, to give yourself a new life path.

Sometimes, with the marriage of two people, it is better to live alone.

But regardless of any choice, as long as you do not regret it, is the best choice.

When you are at the fork in the road of marriage, think about what to do, so as not to leave regrets in life, that is the best choice.