Be the one who needs and loves!

The words need and loved are very close. Sometimes the structure needs and loved ones cause some confusion! Analogous words refer to two completely different needs and individuals.

The need is the need of the time and my dearest personality or favorite person is the beloved. He values ​​me, my work. At the same time he loves or cares for me. I also love him. Loved ones can come into life under any circumstances. Family, social, marriage, work, acquaintance etc. situations are one of the things to be caught. Always loved ones are more valuable to us. The bottom line is that loved ones are a big deal in our lives. Beloved can not be more than one person at the same time!

Sometimes there are situations in our life where we are forced to give in to the need. The situation is so serious, against the mind to cut the loved one's chapter from our life. You may be surprised by this word but it is not wrong. We grow up in the natural order of life and nature. When we learn to earn, parents or guardians marry us off. It maintains overall balance in our life. Marriage is definitely needed to prevent moral decay and this is where the problem begins.

Many types of relationships exist in our real life. There is no one in this world who is close and exclusive like parents. No other relationship can be compared to the relationship between a child and a parent. We children cherish such sweet and intimate soul ties till marriage. Then when we get married, I or we become inhuman. Become selfish, spineless and a slave to wife's orders. Eighty percent of us are in this group as slaves. Wife, do not understand anything except his words and wishes.

Before marriage, everyone knew me as the perfect child of my parents. Now after marriage I am crazy about the happiness of the body. Get up and sit down at the word of the wife. Apart from two exceptions, today's bride does not think of mother-in-law. Even if you or I go to feed or clothe the old parents, we take the orders of the wife. We are out most of the time for work. So we do not understand the neglect of parents. On this occasion our Lakshmi runs a steamroller of neglect and oppression towards his wife, parents.

Despite extreme neglect, humiliation and contempt, parents do not complain to us in the name of son's wife. They always wish their children to be well and happy. From childhood to adulthood, we change the context of love for our loved ones many times as needed. But mom, dad love us like before. Their love for the child has not been so tainted. Here they always prioritize the needs of loved ones, children. But we privileged children call parents for the happiness of the wife, say bura buri. Father-in-law calls mother-in-law Abba Amma.

Are you or I really a worthy child? The reality is that parents have made a big mistake by bringing unfit children like us into the world. Eighty percent of the children and most of them have thoughts during the age. They suffered a lot in the tragic situation of their parents. But judging by the real situation of the family, they have nothing to do or say. Finally, I send your or my beloved parents to the old age home as a reflection of the wife's wishes. The above situations are a matter of deep thought! Judging by the situation, you are sending your parents and loved ones to the old age home. Tell yourself if a loved one has ever succumbed to necessity!

Sometimes loved ones are forced to give in to necessity. Girls are not mentioned here. Because their role as wife is same in other families. Many people may think that it is a love story to be admired. I am very sorry to disappoint you!

The word need is only an action created or taken in judgment of time and circumstances. All of us are bound by necessity whether we like it or not. Surprisingly, how about this again? Suppose, this afternoon, the sky is suddenly clouded with torrential rain. Now you need an umbrella to protect yourself from the rain. got your appetite Find a hotel to satisfy your appetite. This is the demand of the present time. So we are all just toys of time or hands of time.

Actually all our needs at personal, family, social, religious, state, national or global level are just need of time. But some of these requirements are universal, some are contrary to humanity or sometimes imply neutrality. We should all carefully avoid inhuman needs. Individual noble initiative has proven to be the first step to achieving good on a large scale and the only key to solving many complexities.

Beloved and up to ten people can be used as needed. But even if some people are used in need, they don't get a chance to become loved ones. Because someone else may have already earned that title. So if you understand that no one needs you at all. But in that case, he will not suffer like a fool thinking that you are his beloved. Because you may not be able to meet the needs of some. So follow the principle of going it alone instead of clinging to a fixed idea. You will see that the weight of your heavy heart has become much lighter.

There is an easier way to assess and understand how much someone needs you as a human being. That is, his allotted time for you will gradually decrease. And with that, the window of his mind will be closed for you. In such situations, move quickly, with determination and personality.

So the words need and beloved are very similar in terms of spelling but are not the same in terms of meaning. Those who have been able to understand and follow this on the path of life are successful and happy. But it is highly desirable that your requirement should always be universal. In this case it doesn't matter if you are someone's loved one or not.