3 Dates That Spark Attraction

Jill was quite happy.

She was traveling to see a man with whom she had been texting all week.

There was terrible traffic. It was sweltering and humid. Jill didn't care, though. After a successful day at work, she was eager to unwind and enjoy a drink with someone she knew she would get along with.

When she arrived at the event, the temperature was uncomfortable. The cooling system was unable to keep up.

She gave her date a quick glance when he arrived...

Her heart sunk, too.

Yes, he was stunning. He was exactly Connie's type—tall, athletic, and with black hair.

But it was obvious that he wasn't in a good mood because of his grave expression and stiff shoulders.

Without a doubt, the date was ruined.

The environment is the problem, not you.

Why do some dates succeed while others fail?

The clear-cut response is:

Either you clicked, or you didn't

But there's more to the story!

Attraction is more than just a response to a person.

It is also a response to a situation.

When you first meet someone, their surrounding and context will either provide fertile ground for attraction to grow or will cause it to wither and die.

According to research, things like the temperature and how crowded the space is have an impact on attractiveness.

Additionally, some states of mind can enhance the feeling of being attracted to someone.

You may go on a date with the most intriguing guy in the entire world when you're having a terrible day or feeling pressured.

However, it will be difficult to create a lot of excitement for him.

Jill's date had two drawbacks:

Her date seemed grumpy, and the space was hot and packed.

It's understandable if the date didn't go well in those conditions.

Jill should think about how her date's surroundings impacted it rather than placing the blame on herself.

And how she could change her environment for next time.

Dates that Spark Attraction

The weather is out of your control.

You have no influence over how his day has gone.

However, you can set dates that encourage attraction.

Here are 3 date suggestions that impact his attraction pathways.

He'll be in the ideal frame of mind after these dates to appreciate how wonderful being with you is.

1. Pick a date in his area of Confidence

Do you know your date's strengths?

He may be an expert at mountain biking, knows a lot about wines, or know the ins and outs of a particular area of the city.

Next, plan a date centered on his area of expertise.

When a man is very much at ease in his surroundings and believes he is an authority in what you are doing, his best side emerges.

He is ready to demonstrate his skills and knowledge for you.

A guy is more likely to develop positive feelings toward the person he is with when he has a sense of control and confidence.

2. Select a date that creates physiological arousal

In one of the most well-known dating experiments in 1974, men were asked to complete a relatively straightforward task.

The only thing the guys needed to do was cross a bridge, and a lovely woman would be there on the other side to ask them to take a brief test.

The woman would then give him her name and contact information in case he had any more queries.

However, there was a catch:

Some men walked across a steady stable bridge.

While some men walked across a wobbly 450-foot suspension bridge, hundreds of feet above dangerous rocks.

Which group had a higher chance of contacting the attractive woman later?

Apparently, when your body generates adrenaline, you're breathing quicker, you've started to perspire, and your heart is beating a little faster - you can't always determine what made you feel a certain way.

Perhaps it's simply fear...

Perhaps it's that gorgeous individual standing next to you .

This is referred to as arousal misattribution.

Attraction is triggered by anything that raises your blood pressure and pulse rate.

He could view you differently if you choose to do something adventurous on your next date, like ride a roller coaster or attend a thrilling movie.

So set the stage by choosing an exciting next date.

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3. Select a new date for both of you.

Long-term couples are frequently advised to try something new when they see that their marriage's passion is dwindling.

Novelty sparks a desire.

This makes the tried-and-true first date—dinner and drinks—the very worst place to arouse desire. Before you even arrive, boredom already sets in.

Why not try a new approach?

Your senses are enhanced when you're doing something for the first time. You take it all in. Every second of the experience is remembered.

Try an odd, unusual restaurant that neither of you have ever visited, if you're hungry. Street food? Drive-in movie?

And don't blame yourself if, despite your best efforts, the date is hot and unpleasant and he is cranky and depressed.

When those attraction circuits are turned down, not even Marilyn Monroe could reach him.

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