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27 tips for staying positive when dating

Dating tips

By Alain SaamegoPublished 2 years ago 3 min read

When you are dating, it can be easy to get down on yourself. If you are having a hard time staying positive, here are some tips to help you out.

  • Don't compare yourself to others.

Everyone is different and has their own set of strengths and weaknesses. Don't put yourself down because you don't have the same qualities as someone else.

  • Don't be afraid to be single.

There's nothing wrong with being single. It gives you time to focus on yourself and find out what you want in a relationship.

  • Don't be afraid to be happy.

Some people may think that you're being too picky if you're happy with yourself. Ignore them and be proud of the person you are

  • Don't be afraid to have fun.

Dating should be enjoyable, so try to have as much fun as possible. This will make the process a lot easier.

  • Don't be afraid to date different people.

If you're only interested in one type of person, you're going to have a hard time finding someone to date. Branch out and try different things.

  • Don't be afraid to take things slow.

Don't rush into a relationship. This will only lead to disappointment down the road.

Keep an open mind.

Don’t expect the other person to be exactly like you. They will have their own quirks and personality traits that you’ll love.

  • Don’t put all your eggs in one basket.

If the date doesn’t go well, don’t get discouraged. There are plenty of other people out there.

  • Keep a positive attitude.

No one wants to date someone who is negative all the time.

  • Smile.

A smile is the best way to show someone that you’re interested in them.

  • Be yourself.

Don’t try to be someone you’re not. The other person will appreciate the real you.

  • Take a break.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, take a break from dating. Maybe focus on your career or your hobbies for a while.

  • Talk to your friends.

They’ll be a great support system and they’ll be able to give you honest feedback about the person you’re dating.

  • Relax.

Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to find love. Take things at your own pace and you’ll find the right person for you.

  • Be optimistic.

Think of dating as a way to meet new people and have new experiences. It’s not always about finding “the one.”

  • Don’t get too attached.

Don’t get too attached to the idea of dating someone. Remember that they’re just a person, like everyone else.

  • Have fun.

Dating should be fun, so make sure you focus on the things you enjoy.

  • Be honest.

If you don’t like something about the other person, tell them. They’ll appreciate your honesty.

  • Take things slow.

Don’t rush into anything. Get to know the person you’re dating first.

  • Be positive.

No one wants to date someone who is always negative.

  • Be patient.

Don’t expect to find love overnight. It takes time to find the right person.

  • Don’t give up.

If you’ve been dating for a while and you haven’t found anyone you click with, don’t give up.

  • Ignore the haters.

If someone is giving you a hard time about your dating life, ignore them. They’re just jealous.

  • Be open-minded.

Don’t rule anyone out until you’ve gotten to know them.

  • Take things one step at a time.

Don’t expect to have a deep conversation with the other person on the first date.

  • Expect the unexpected.

The person you’re dating might not be who you expect them to be.

  • Don’t be too picky.

You might miss out on the perfect person if you’re too picky.

No matter how you approach dating, there will always be ups and downs. However, by following these 27 tips, you can make the journey a little smoother and a lot more positive.

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About the Creator

Alain Saamego

Software engineer , Writer and Content Strategist at Selfgrow.co.uk

I'm a technology enthusiast, and I love learning about upcoming technologies. I also enjoy teaching and answering questions about new technologies.

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