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Explore common and little-known fetishes. Learn how to satisfy a fetish and how to interpret the fetishes of your partner.
He Watched Her... (Part 2)
She stared out of her kitchen window while washing the dishes. Life had gone back to normal; the hustle and bustle of life. The weekly PTO Meetings, soccer practices, football practices, and running kids all over the city had once again consumed her life. It seemed like was this was the only time she had to herself; when she was staring out of that kitchen window while washing the dishes. That was the time when she could reflect and reminisce. Lately, she had been reminiscing… It had been a month since she last saw him that night in the hotel. She had never seen anything so beautiful before… She stared out of the window, daydreaming about her experience with him…
Reaux TinkleflowerPublished 6 years ago in FilthyThe Daddy Complex
"Who's your daddy?" It's a question that is used in and to indicate sexy times (especially in pop culture). There is also a group of people, a growing group, that sexualize men who are fathers or who look and act like they could be a dad. What is so sexy about that? There are a few theories, but almost none of them hit on the real reason why dads are so hot, why there is a group of gay men and straight ladies who fetishize them.
Edward AndersonPublished 6 years ago in FilthyThe Line Between Learning and Using
Sometimes, we don't give submissives enough credit. As Dominants, we often mistake a submissives need for leadership for a lack of knowledge. Yes, these people must be lead in the right direction, but this doesn't mean these people come without a skill set and personality all their own. Most dominants in the fetish world have heard the term, "Topping from the Bottom." It's a term that is used when someone who claims to be submissive, is in fact very manipulative, controlling, and demanding. These people often see themselves as true submissives, when in reality they want to experience controlled, submissive fantasies they have constructed. Alone, there is nothing wrong with this, but when bringing it into a kink dynamic, it can often be frustrating, tiring, and harmful.
Soulless SugarPublished 6 years ago in FilthyHow to Be a Middle Ground Femdom
For so long, with encouragement from my partner, I tried to ramp up my kinkiness in the bedroom to better incorporate more BDSM and dominance on my part. Time and time again my own conscience would make me hold back. Am I going too far? Is he even enjoying this? Is this weird or…? I trawled through the internet trying to find tips on how to be more dominant and what I found I could not relate to. These women who wrote about their dominant experiences had their man in a chastity cage 24/7 and were often very controlling in many aspects that I couldn’t comprehend, but totally respected their commitment.
Kate CrawfordPublished 6 years ago in FilthyA Newbie's Guide to the London Fetish/BDSM/Kink Scene
So you want to check out the London fetish scene? It's a fascinating and excitingly weird place. If you’re feeling a little nervous, just remember that everybody was new once! People on the fetish scene remember how scary it can be at the beginning, so don't be afraid of being judged or making a fool of yourself. And my god, please don't take Fifty Shades as an accurate representation of BDSM/kink.
My Dom from Hell
I heard a lot of horror stories in the past of S/D relationships, or I heard some juicy ones from some of my girlfriends over wine. I have always loved the BDSM life style for most of my late teen and early adult life. I won’t say I am a hardcore expert, but I have been around the block a few times while looking deeper into the kinky sex world. BDSM is a huge world. It has so many different meanings for so many people. In this day of age, there is a fetish for everything and someone out there that shares the same interests. You've just got to know where to look to find the right person.
Camille BallentinePublished 6 years ago in FilthyLife with a Kink
Possible Triggers Ahead (mentions of rape play, domestic abuse, and graphic language) All sources are anonymous to protect the identities of those interviewed.
Sonny CurtinPublished 6 years ago in Filthy- Top Story - August 2018
Ties That Bind: Getting the Most out of Kink as a Couple
If the title to this post caught your eye than you've probably got a thirst for the not-so-basic side of sex. Believe it or not, a lot of people fall into our group to one degree or another.
My First Week Without Porn
When I was in college, I had a serious problem. It didn’t have anything to do with alcohol or drugs, very little to do with lack of sleep or lack of a social life, or anything else one might commonly associate with college students experiencing their first taste of freedom outside of the nest. My problem was porn, and I was hopelessly addicted to it.
Kyle FosterPublished 6 years ago in FilthyHow My Daddy-Kink Turned Into My First Threesome
Introductions are best done first. I’m Oliver, I’m 19, I’m a gay man, and I’m about to detail my first threesome. Now that we’re assimilated, allow me to share some context.
The Allure of Public Sex
“I want to fuck you in Central Park!” So read one message that I received on Whisper, the app that is supposed to be anonymous but has turned into another place for people to hook up. The gentleman (using that word lightly here) didn’t even say hello, that was his first message. Two things that will be unpacked in future essays, first who starts off talking like that and does it usually work? Second, the guy claimed to be straight but knew an awful lot about gay sex. Most importantly though, it got me to wondering about why people are so turned on by sex in public.
Edward AndersonPublished 6 years ago in FilthyYes, I Think Women Can Have a Cute Belly Button
When I was 19, before I realized that I loved women's legs, I Googled a lot of actresses in my spare time to see their beauty, but back when I was coming into discovering what I like regarding a woman's physical features, one was really unique to me: the belly button.
Don Anderson IIPublished 6 years ago in Filthy