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Sugar vs pro dom, findom, cam girls and sex work

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By Lena BaileyPublished 4 years ago Updated 2 years ago 4 min read
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This is an article I needed to write for a while. People just don't know or understand the difference. A lot of people haven't done their research on what these things really are. Some people have done their research but still don't see the difference. Lines can get blurred very easily in these worlds. Let's dive in.

Let's start with sugar. It is where a rich and successful older person either pays or takes care of the finicail needs of a younger person. The younger person is getting the finical benefits of the arrangement for their time. This can include texting, phone calls, video chats, date or hang outs and trips. What is not included is sex or sex acts. Some people include fetishes or kinks in the ok list. Some think that fetishes or kinks are ok as long as the genitals are not being touch or penetrated. Well you shouldn't be paid for anything being penetrated. There is a difference between having sex or doing sex act because you want to and doing it because you have to for your pay. I'm kind of neutral when it comes to fetish, kinks and sugar. Sugar is basically a relationship that sugar daddies pay for.

Sugar attracts sex workers and findoms. They think of sugar as a way to do there work legally or cutting down on negative connotations. To them this is a loophole. Sugar also attracts cam girls. The reason for that is because some girls are scared of meeting potential sugar daddies so they want to offer things they can do without meeting. This is dangerous because sugar sites know how to handle sugar problems. Sugar sites will kick baby and mamas or daddies off for anything that sounds like sex work or findom. Also there are legit cam sites that can and will support any problems that a cam girl can encounter.

Findom is short for financial domination. It can look a few different ways because every person is different and every relationship or dynamic is different. One way that I've seen findom is the sub hands over money or a gift to the Dom which are often called tributes. I've also seen the sub lay a tribute at the Dom's feet. Another way that these kind of relationships could go is that the sub could give the Dom permission empty his bank account or spend their money. The relationship could be set up to where sub has to ask to for permission to spend their money.

Their are findoms who do go on the sugar sites. This is because they either are confused or they are also a sugar baby. The difference between findom and sugar. Subs that go with findoms don't mind being called pigs. The subs are also don't mind being treated like ATMs. Sugar daddies, real sugar daddies, don't want to be called pigs and they don't want to feel like they're ATMs. They want to feel like they are helping you.

Pro doms are a lot of times considered sex workers so I'll lump them together. Pro doms are those who are doms for the money. Some pro doms can be doms for fun in their free time. Sex workers have sex or do sex acts for money. Sex work is illegal in most places but check the laws in your area. For example stripping and sugar maybe legal but everything else maybe illegal. If you have brothels in your state you have to go through them, same for strip clubs/companies. Sex work is illegal sugar and findom is not. Pro doms are different from findoms because they get paid per session where the findoms can get paid whether or not there is a session.

Now I briefly talked earlier about cam girls but there is more we have to cover. Cam girls are young ladies that do things on camera for the enjoyment of another person and for money. There are also cam boys but there aren't as many of those. They can do anything on camera one girl just shaved her legs for money, another popped balloons. If you don't want to meet people in person this is a great option but please go through cam girl websites. Cam girl websites can help you with cam girl problems.

A lot of girls are cam girls but call themselves sugar babies. There are online sugar babies but cam is a little different. Online or texting sugar babies text and have phone calls, they can also skype. The difference is that cam girl don't have a relationship or comradery with the people they do this with. Also the cam girls only get paid or go on cam to do whatever their client wants. This is different than sex work because you don't have to do sexual stuff on cam. You may not also get as much money doing cam girl stuff as you would doing sex work.

I hope that you learned something. I hope that this made sense. I will post more about sugar later.

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Lena Bailey

Georgia born writer. Specializing in dating and true crime

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