S.E.X.

Sex…

it is more than a part of biology.

It’s a moment where you should be able to freely express your emotions physically, spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and psychologically.

It is a moment where you should be free to express yourself respectfully; it is a moment of intimate democracy.

Physical stimulation and penetration is just one part of the equation.

Sex is a sensual stimulation of the mind, body, and senses

—a whole body sensation that should please your desires, and imagination.

It is a moment to where the everything connects; the mind, the body, and emotions are in cooperation.

Do you sexually know what you want and you need?

The sexual experience should be pleasurable to all parties, indeed.

When it comes to your sexual desires, you shouldn’t have to settle nor make modifications,

nor should you have to force yourself to meet someone else’s qualifications.

If you want sex in abundance you should not be with someone who wants sex in moderation.

If you desire lengthy sex, you should not be with someone who can only last a limited duration.

You may want a combination of both slow, and acceleration.

Or you may want speeds that has a gradual accumulation.

That is to say, sex should be a combination of both fixation and variation.

You should also get your satisfaction out of the moment —opposed to involving yourself with someone who is only concerned with getting their climax;

don’t deal with those who have their mind only set on self gratification.

Sexually settling is going to do nothing but lead to infidelity or the accumulation of sexual frustration.

So, seek that companion who can meet your expectations.

If you’re relationship is experiencing sexual stagnation,

that is a very strong indication,

that you and your partner need to open up the doors to communication.

Without confrontation,

have a heart to heart conversation.

Remember you initially loved this person, so your bond should be your primary obligation.

Never assume the worst;

at times there can be a legitimate explanation,

as to why the intimacy is in a state of declination.

It’s natural to have suspicions,

but never jump to conclusions.

There needs to a comprehensive conversation—

without extensive interrogation, unjustified accusations, and intangible allegations.

Your sex life may need innovation,

but only do so if you both can mutually agree to the alterations.

Then, there is the harsh truth that your relationship may be dead and there is no hopes of resuscitation.

It happens. That spark may not be there anymore and your bond has reached its expiration.

If that’s the case, then you should not give anyone else a sexual opportunity or invitation,

until you’re relationship has officially came to a cessation.

You also should not jump into another intimate partnership if there are any hopes of reconciliation or restoration of your previous situation.

Love language is the sexual foundation.

It sharpens and strengthens the admiration.

Everything during sex and that leads up to sex counts. From the foreplay, to the breaking the ice through dating, to the in depth empathetic and active listening, alongside of the in-depth conversations.

Breaking the ice, and dating is sexual preparation.

Sex is a language that pleads the fifth;

the moans, the facial expressions, and the intimate expressions speak silently.

Sometimes there is foreplay before intercourse, sometimes there is intercourse before foreplay, sometimes there is conversation, and intercourse, then more conversation.

That is to say…sexual stimulation does not always occur chronologically.

Have you ever had sex and didn’t quite know how it happened or why it happened, and you didn’t expect it to happen…?

Did you feel remorse or regret after the session?

Were you manipulated, or under any duress is the magic question?

Was your conscience flooding your mind with voices of opposing suggestions?

If the answer is no to any of these questions, then lust is definitely out of the question.

If it happened consciously, then there is a genuine affection and potentially a soul connection.

This is especially the case if the feelings are mutual and it is not a sole affection.

This is definitely the case if after the moment your whole body and personality radiantly glows, not just partially, or in sections.

Don’t feel bad. Sometimes there is a singular or series of strong constant impressions that leads to an instant connection.

Embrace your decision if it happened at your own discretion.

It did not happen ironically.

So quit beating yourself up about it constantly.

Sex is a spiritual, universal, convincing, language that can only be experienced and not expressed logically.

Our hearts desires speaks sub-textually and subconsciously.

That is to say…

romance, and falling in love, or getting involved in a relationship does not have a strict set time frame nor a set chronology.

Sex…

Some like it during drunkenness,

Some like it during sobriety,

Some like it public,

Some like privacy,

Some like it basic,

Some like it lively,

Some like it spontaneous,

Some like it routine and timely,

That is to say, sex varies amongst our society.

A suggestive cause of dissatisfaction, and sexual frustration

is when the quality does not match the quantity.

There must be a chemistry:

you must meet one another’s sexual needs consistently, and constantly.

Commonly, it has been proven sex is always better when it happens surprisingly.

Most importantly, sex is better when it comes in many forms, forms that are of a variety.

In conclusion, sex is always better when you connect with their whole being in entirety.