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How to Give Her an Intense Squirting Orgasm

by Mythili 3 months ago in how to

Because squirting is the best thing that can happen to her.

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Squirting, a squirting orgasm, or female ejaculation are all different names for the same thing.

And yes, you can make your girlfriend ejaculate. Giving a woman a squirting orgasm is not easy but science has proved that every woman can squirt. And when she does that, she squirts a special type of liquid from her vagina, the experience of which is called the ultimate nirvana of orgasms.

As a psychologist and, sexual expert Dr. Rachel Needle says.

"Female ejaculation is characterized by the expulsion of a significant quantity of fluid from the woman's urethra during orgasm. Many people refer to this as 'squirting' or 'gushing.'"

OK. Why this hype about squirting?

The whole experience can feel pretty effing fantastic. In fact, one study showed nearly 80 percent of women who've experienced squirting said it improved their sex lives.

The urethra is a damn sensitive area and when she gets this rush of fluid at the same time while having an orgasm, it can be a very pleasurable experience. And for the minority that have either had a squirting orgasm, or experienced a woman having one, it’s a glorious ending to a fantabulous sex session.

That brings us to a controversial question.

Is squirting the same thing as peeing? Be to honest, I have no clue.

There are some studies that say this, and some studies that say that. We have known for a long time that some women can produce notable amounts of liquid from their genitals during sexual excitement or orgasm.

Hippocrates and the Kama Sutra both mention references to something called female ‘semen’. In the 17th Century, Dutch anatomist Regnier de Graaf wrote a ground-breaking treatise, describing this fluid and linking it to an erogenous zone inside the vagina that was much like male prostate.

And in recent times, in 2007, a Viennese urologist examined the urine and ejaculate from several women. He and his team found that the two were very chemically different. The ejaculate contained glucose, fructose, prostatic acid phosphatase (PAP) and prostate-specific antigen (PSA), which we now know are produced by the Skene’s glands – the equivalent of the prostate, which is instrumental in male ejaculation.

However, urea and creatinine – two key components of pee – were nowhere to be found. Female ejaculate is also exclusively a clear, or slightly milky liquid. It never stains sheets or towels with the yellow hue that urine does.

This is still a hotly contested topic but we can safely say that female ejaculation or squirting is not urination. Besides who even cares what it is if both you and her are enjoying the whole heavenly experience of squirting?

Of course, you'll never know until you try. So, if you’re still curious about making her squirt, here are some things you can do.

Use your fingers and stimulate her G-spot

You can find the G spot on the upper side of the vagina, about 3-4 centimeters' inwards. The spot is a bit rubbery and sponge-like.

You’ll start by inserting your middle finger into her vagina, making sure it’s wet and lubed. Gently stroke the area with your middle finger and see how she responds. If you are making her squirt for the first time, explore her with your fingertips.

Do alternate deep and shallow stimulation with your fingers curled so that they touch the sides of her vaginal canal. This is where the nerves are and she gets the maximum stimulation. As you do so, you will be able to feel different textures and surfaces, helping you to find exactly where her G Spot is…Remember, it feels exactly like a wet raspberry.

Once you find it, press it gently on and off like a button. Experiment and vary how much pressure you need to apply and the speed at which you do it. Lightly pressing can be enough for some women, while others need intense pressure.

Take care not to overdo but just apply the right pressure to make her spill over the edge and squirt.

Making her squirt during sex

Choose your position carefully if you want to make her squirt during sex because the only way you will be able to do it is if your cock is stimulating her g-spot.

The difference between normal and squirting sex lies entirely in the angle of your penis. The angle of the penis must be right in order to stimulate the g-spot. The length of the penis isn’t important here. However, penis girth can be important because it helps maintain good contact with the g-spot and seals the vagina creating alternating pressure and vacuum that turns her on and bring her to orgasm.

The best position is the doggy style. Although the angle of the penis, in this case, is not ideal, it still allows you to use your hand to stimulate her clit while thrusting into her. The second-best position is missionary style with the man’s penis tilted upwards to hit the woman’s g-spot precisely. Additionally, this style also allows you to read her expressions and adjust yourself accordingly.

Finally, just like the finger squirting technique, you will need to pull out your penis as the pressure grows and she is about to explode. It’s funny when men complain that they can’t make their girlfriends squirt during intercourse and the reason is that their dicks are inside the vagina the whole time.

Timing is everything at this point. The feeling of release and the vacuum that gets created is what usually triggers the rhythmic squirting to take place, especially when used alongside vigorous clitoral stimulation by hands or even mouth.

Remember the G Spot is easier to find when she is aroused. Just like your penis only gets hard when you’re aroused, her G Spot will remain hidden until she is aroused and horny.

So, make sure you devote adequate time for an extended session of foreplay.

Every woman is different

I am sure in porn videos, you would have seen girls squirting a long stream into the air.

Amazing? Isn’t it? Don’t expect that in real life. Some women can ejaculate a larger amount of fluid, which includes fluid that comes from the bladder. But this is the exception and not the rule. That said, most women squirt less and that does not travel so far in the air. Additionally, many women simply release small amounts of liquid instead of squirting a steady stream of fluid.

So, if your girl never seems to squirt but just gets incredibly wet, you need to understand that that is the nearest to squirting she can get. Respect that and don’t get frustrated. You need to talk to her openly and non-judgmentally about it to try and help her enjoy the act rather than putting the squirting pressure on her. You may need to remind her to relax by telling her to 'let it go,’”.

Remember, squirting isn't something that comes naturally to every woman. And if she does, enjoy the clean-up!

Lastly, listen to her

Get her feedback at every point.

The simplest way to get feedback from her is to watch her face and body language when you’re using these techniques on her. If her eyes are rolling into the back of her head, she is making an ‘O’ shape with her mouth, and she is the throes of ecstasy, then you are clearly doing everything right. However, if her face looks frustrated, bored or neutral then she may not be enjoying it as much, and you may want to alter your technique slightly.

The key is to listen to her and understand exactly what she wants. For her to reach her orgasmic potential, a woman has to be able to tell you what feels good and what feels really good.

The difference can often be as small as moving a few millimeters of pressure to the left or applying just a wee bit more fingering. As you get more and more feedback from her, you will be able to build up a mental library of techniques that are guaranteed to make you her best lover.

As Alexandra Katehakis has rightly said.

“Many lovers are ‘off to the races:’ Hurtling towards orgasm, they miss the excitement of sensual meanderings along the way.”

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Mythili is a programmer by passion and a connoisseur of fine arts like painting, calligraphy, and pottery. She writes in the twilight between relationships, creativity, and human behavior.

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