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8 Telltale Signs That Your First Date Is Husband Material

There are numerous types of first dates, and everyone has their own particular interests and preferences.

By The Lost GirlPublished about a year ago 3 min read
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Women frequently claim that they can predict whether or not a man will be the guy they end up marrying on the first date. They claim that there is something about a man's voice that makes them certain of him. They claim it's in the way he looks at her or conducts himself in her presence. There are also some ladies who simply state that they know without ever explaining why.

First dates are always thrilling. It can be as basic as meeting someone for a cup of coffee and discussing anything and everything under the sun. It may even be something as complex as organising a candlelit meal beneath the stars.

There are numerous types of first dates, and everyone has their own particular interests and preferences. However, most individuals will agree that there is a lot of pressure involved in first dates. There's just so much at stake here. Many individuals believe that a first date alone may make or destroy a relationship. That is why you should constantly strive to make an excellent first impression.

But, in addition, you should be paying attention to how a guy conducts himself on your first date. There are numerous indications to look for that might reveal a lot about how the two of you will fare as a couple.

Yes, you can tell whether you'll be able to work things out with a guy you've only met on a first date.

This is especially true if you're sick of going on first dates in the first place. You just want to meet that one guy who will be everything to you; the man with whom you know you can build a truly solid and healthy future.

That's why you need to be able to cut through all the nonsense that bad guys may be telling you. You want to know if you have a genuine chance of being with a man for life from the first date. That is why the information in this post will be useful to you.

There are some signals you should look for on your first date to evaluate if he is someone who could be your future husband. And here are some examples:

1. He treats you like a gentleman.

When he is with you, he always makes an effort to exhibit himself as a true gentlemen. And how so? He is always respectful to you. He never does or says anything that could jeopardise your personal dignity.

2. He has a successful professional career.

He seemed to have everything in order. He has a stable source of money that allows him to live comfortably. In terms of his work life, he has several ambitions.

3. He has a strong commitment to his family.

From your first meeting, you get the impression that he is highly family-oriented. You can tell he's the type of guy that values the family system a lot.

4. He has long-term objectives.

He is someone who has some lofty ambitions for himself. He's not satisfied with simply coasting and floating among the waves. He is someone who knows what he wants and what he needs to do to get it.

5. He doesn't have any major red flags.

He doesn't appear to be the type of guy who keeps skeletons in his closet. He shows no signs of being rude or selfish. He doesn't offer you any cause to think he's a bad guy.

6. You can't quit thinking about him when the date is ended.

You just can't get him out of your head after the first date. He manages to permeate the numerous corners of your mind even after you two separate ways.

7. You have many comparable life ideals and principles.

You share a lot of life beliefs and principles. That implies you and your partner won't have a hard time managing your differences. For the most part, you will be essentially compatible.

8. He knows exactly what he wants in a companion.

This demonstrates that he understands what he wants from partnerships. He's a guy who's undoubtedly gone around the block with partners before. And he's had enough of fooling about.

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A Lost Girl is: A woman in her 20s, 30s (and beyond) who's more than a bit unsure about what she's doing with her life, the direction that she's headed and how to make changes for the better.

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