Miss Aayden ~ L.S. Diamond
Bio
When I am not reading or taking pictures I am writing. I spend my time with my dogs or in the realm of kink. Just a girl with a kinky side on a quest to educate. You can also find my posts and events here~ www.calgarydomme.com
Stories (37/0)
Lovemaking Technique: The Coital Alignment Technique
Sexual techniques and prowess in the bedroom have come a long way in the last little while. It wasn't that long ago that Doctor Kinsey started sex research and founded the Kinsey Institute. For many of us having teenage years in the late 80s and early 1990s, we were huddled around the TV for a Sunday show called Sex with Sue. There was also the well-known late-night show, Doctor Ruth. Many of us learned from these two women or our parent's hidden stash of Playboy and Hustler magazines. For me, this was the first introduction besides the Catholic school’s sex education program that I had ever received and like many of us sex was not about the experience or the pleasure, but the result was the male orgasm. I didn't even know then what a female orgasm was. In many of these resources and in pornography we see sexual techniques that involve thrusting or an in and out motion. What if I told you there are other techniques that provide the same amount of pleasure with stimulation to other sexual regions.
By Miss Aayden ~ L.S. Diamond2 years ago in Filthy
Orgasm Control: A Kink for the Mainstream too
In this world of pandemic pressures and Internet, information polls were conducted and in the top 10 biggest kinks was orgasm control. In the world of kink, we use orgasms as reward and punishment but also because you like to witness pleasure.
By Miss Aayden ~ L.S. Diamond2 years ago in Filthy
Does Size Really Matter?
In being a relationship coach, couples’ counselor, and kink professional; I have been asked on numerous occasions am I the right size or could I be bigger. So, it led me on a journey of curiosity as to whether size matters to a potential partner when having sexual intercourse. The underlying sentiment for females is that size doesn't matter the important aspect is how you use it. However, in the male population insecurities about size often are in the forefront of thoughts. Remember these are my own thoughts, opinions, and suggestions when it comes to the size of a penis.
By Miss Aayden ~ L.S. Diamond2 years ago in Filthy
Jealousy: Overcoming and Understanding
All relationships can be made happy if you know-how. Let's look at some of the right skills to find a clear understanding of what makes them work, sometimes it seems so far away when jealousy is in the mix. It is absolutely no surprise when jealousy becomes an obstacle to having a satisfying healthy relationship. By identifying sometimes quite complex underlying emotions better present with jealousy, we can discover its cause and effectively devise a positive plan to take jealousy's power away.
By Miss Aayden ~ L.S. Diamond2 years ago in Filthy
The Big O: Understanding Mind-blowing O's.
What is an orgasm? How does it affect your biological chemistry? We're going to cover how to get on the o train and come out with new techniques. Before we can get to the techniques and the fun, we must understand a few key concepts. Brain chemistry, what happens during the orgasm, male versus female, the orgasm model, and communicating your needs. These are all things you need to understand in order to up your o game.
By Miss Aayden ~ L.S. Diamond2 years ago in Filthy
How To Make a Hard Conversation Easy?
So, what makes talking about stuff so hard with your partner well it's quite simple it's the questioning. It's the self doubt. It's the fear. It's all the questions in your head that say what if, I'll get laughed at, I'm weird, it's only me, what if my partner leaves. All of it equals self doubt and fear. In this article let's address how we can overcome our fear and share it with our partners.
By Miss Aayden ~ L.S. Diamond2 years ago in Filthy
Let's Talk About Sex
Let’s talk, about sex for a minute. I know, that’s a fast hard statement. Yet, I talk to so many couples where sex becomes a fight. Either the sex drive scale is out of whack or they simply are not getting what they want. Seems easy right? Not so much. What needs to happen first off, is a disconnect from what you have been taught. That’s right…TAUGHT. Weather it was from childhood observations, media, advertising, or even life, we simply need to retrain our brains.
By Miss Aayden ~ L.S. Diamond4 years ago in Filthy
Femdom from the Female Led Perspective
Fem + Domme = Female Dominate. However and very traditionally, this was a female led and male submissive relationship. In this new era of inclusion this becomes female led with any variation of submissive partner. I am, personally, what you call heteroflexible. This means I am attracted to men for relationships but if the right person came along that was not male; I would be open to possibilities. So for the purpose of the remainder of this article I will address Femdom as female led and male submissive.
By Miss Aayden ~ L.S. Diamond4 years ago in Filthy
Community Basics: A Gentle Reminder for the Alternative Lifestyle Communities
Our communities are ever-evolving and changing. New people and old hats alike always need to be aware of some of the basic guidelines we must follow as we have seen a drastic decline in old practices of lifestyle families and mentoring. The families and clubs gave newcomers a strong base of ethics and community rules. These venues also allowed a safety net of inclusiveness, non-judgment, and acceptance.
By Miss Aayden ~ L.S. Diamond5 years ago in Filthy
Active Energetic Consent
There are 4 types of consent within our society and I have listed and defined them below. It is so important now, more than ever, that we look at how we see consent. This needs to be a topic of conversation, a topic of education, a topic to be defined. I have put together Active Energetic Consent as a relevant way to explore the mandatory topic.
By Miss Aayden ~ L.S. Diamond5 years ago in Filthy