Miss Aayden ~ L.S. Diamond
When I am not reading or taking pictures I am writing. I spend my time with my dogs or in the realm of kink. Just a girl with a kinky side on a quest to educate. You can also find my posts and events here~ www.calgarydomme.com
Mistress Adventure Series: I think I might have a Medical Fetish
In a world that dictates norms, it is a bit surprising to find usefulness in everyday objects. What does that mean to somebody who is alternatively sexual in nature? Sometimes looking outside, the box to solve a problem turns into a bit of sexual exploration.
Mistress Adventure Series: Ever-Changing Boundaries and Dynamics Through Communication
Boy B and I were driving home from dinner with another female dominant and her partner when I decided to ask the boy a question. The question was, “What does a container for playtime look like to you?” I think boy B was a little unsure of his thought on this. Yet at dinner, he perked right up when this other beautiful lady was talking about how her and her partner put their dynamic into containers to allow it to thrive alongside their everyday lives.
The Mistress Adventure Series: The Brat
It often surprises me how many times you come across a very alpha male that has very submissive qualities. No matter how those qualities are endearing and adventurous an alpha sub has some measure of brat in him. When looking at this in terms of relationship how it plays out is at the very forefront of this brat behavior or jerk behavior.
Mistress Adventure Series: Date a Guy with The Really Cool Job
b “Awe really? He does that for work?” “You should keep him that’s cool” “No Way, that makes you just as awesome.” It’s amazing what people say when they hear that the guy I like and adore has a super unique job. A lot of people claim to be good at it, but few can carry that weight. The man I choose to care for and invite into my life, and the boy I choose to have kneel before me has that job. He’s good at his work and he has talent.
Mistress Adventure Series: Dating an Alpha Male That Is My Submissive
Oh, the fun that can be had by the equality that comes with an alpha male. Its amazing to know that in every way your man can fend for himself and do for himself. There is no fear that comes from “can we pay the bills”, or “is there food in the fridge?” There is no worry that if I was to fall ill that the bills wouldn’t get paid. Or maybe it’s the love of going out in public and he is the truest of gentleman. Ladies simp over the type of man he is, manners and charm, care and enthusiasm over his job and passions. I’ll add in he is very creative and can draw impeccable artworks. I look at him with wonder as he is exactly what I put out into the world I want. This is my thought but sometimes it’s hard for him to accept these kinds of words. Words are my passion, my art, as visual art, and drawing are his.
Keep The Passion Burning: 10 Sex Tips for Continued Passion
Some of the simplest things we can do to keep the passion in our relationship and to keep it going hard and strong is to keep dating our partner. Oftentimes living together or the stresses of life can have a big impact on how we look at the person that is supposed to hold us up and be our rock. How we choose to live our relationships is a direct reflection of the attention we want to receive. Often, we express ourselves to our partners through simple acts rather than expressing ourselves in words.
Small BDSM Traditions
Traditions in the kink community are a strong driving force within the BDSM culture. The traditions we see come from the history and origin of kink however they are evolving to include more mainstream players that come to us from social media. The traditions I speak of could be anything from collaring to how a submissive behaves. Exploring these traditions allows us to develop our own unique D/s style.
Monogamy, Poly and The Ish
Why is monogamy so hard? We all seek the ideal in a relationship. We want our knight in shining armor, or safe space, but why do we truly want these things? The need for this yearning for long-term desire is sometimes overshadowed or at odds with two opposing forces. The need for security versus the need for surprise.
Adding To Your Communication Toolbox
Balance in any relationship is key to a healthy thriving dynamic. What that dynamic is ultimately is up to the people involved however, being in a kink relationship takes a bit more work. There are expectations outside of the normal day-to-day that must be faced, and those expectations can be well within the physical or sexual realm. It is often hard to maintain a dynamic when you must face things like work, family responsibilities, paying bills, or even grocery shopping. All the mundane things that take away from the fun.
Sex Toy Avoidance
Can sex toys in the bedroom really be unwanted? I never knew this was a topic for concern until scrolling through Tik Tok and seeing just how many men were put off by sex toys. I was further dismayed when I did a Google search and found Reddit posts and various other forum posts with the exact same topic... “My boyfriend is jealous of my toy.” This seems like such a foreign concept to me as someone who dives into the realm of kink. Kink revolves around toys, lots of toys. So, I decided to look past my views and take a deeper look into why men might be jealous of their girlfriends’ toys.
Lovemaking Technique: The Coital Alignment Technique
Sexual techniques and prowess in the bedroom have come a long way in the last little while. It wasn't that long ago that Doctor Kinsey started sex research and founded the Kinsey Institute. For many of us having teenage years in the late 80s and early 1990s, we were huddled around the TV for a Sunday show called Sex with Sue. There was also the well-known late-night show, Doctor Ruth. Many of us learned from these two women or our parent's hidden stash of Playboy and Hustler magazines. For me, this was the first introduction besides the Catholic school’s sex education program that I had ever received and like many of us sex was not about the experience or the pleasure, but the result was the male orgasm. I didn't even know then what a female orgasm was. In many of these resources and in pornography we see sexual techniques that involve thrusting or an in and out motion. What if I told you there are other techniques that provide the same amount of pleasure with stimulation to other sexual regions.
Orgasm Control: A Kink for the Mainstream too
In this world of pandemic pressures and Internet, information polls were conducted and in the top 10 biggest kinks was orgasm control. In the world of kink, we use orgasms as reward and punishment but also because you like to witness pleasure.