Ian Sankan
Bio
I am a writer with proven writing ability in various fields. I consider writing a passionate career and a platform through which I extend my intellectual ability.
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Why does he keep coming back?
Done that; been there before. As a guy, I carried out the action over and over and over again. And continued to do it over and over. Both she and I were incorrect in our assumptions about the situation. I was mistaken because I thought that every time we broke up, she would fix the problems that I noticed in our relationship that caused me to leave repeatedly. Or, she would do things that I wanted her to do as a couple or as the woman who would take care of her man as I was taking care of her while we were both taking care of each other. Perhaps after I left, she would realize what I was searching for in a relationship, which was something more than a mere physical attraction; after all, anyone can find that. I was looking for someone who was both emotional and a team player. The issue was that I never talked with her about what was wrong, and she never responded to any of my attempts to connect with her.
By Ian Sankan8 months ago in Confessions
Dealing With Insults
Most individuals get triggered when insulted, so I wrote an article about dealing with insults. For the most part, stoicism teaches you how to achieve a peaceful state of awareness and be unaffected by things not up to you. One of these things is insults, which frequently cause the receiver to get hurt, angry, and even resentful.
By Ian Sankan9 months ago in Education
I DID NOT ASK TO BE HERE.
Is it preferable not to have existed? Some people think it would be better if there was no conscious life at all. The philosophical position known as antinatalism holds that procreation constitutes moral evil. Therefore, we ought to steer clear of it. Some antinatalists believe that just humans should stop having children, while others argue that it would have been better for all sentient beings if they had never existed. But isn't it wrong to be against childbirth? Why would somebody be opposed to the development of new life? David Benatar is one of the most well-known antinatalist thinkers of our time. Instead, Not to Have Been, one of the books he wrote, contains a thorough explanation of his antinatalist beliefs. Benatar contends that creating new sentient life is always evil because doing so causes grave harm. Therefore, the most beneficial thing we may do for our future offspring is to avoid procreation because those who haven't been born aren't subject to the pain of life. His antinatalist stance is, therefore, not motivated by a dislike for sentient creatures. It is motivated by compassion because it wants to stop the inevitable misery of being born. Antinatalism is a contentious issue that conflicts with many people's worldviews. The general public likely opposes antinatalism since they view it as misanthropic. After all, isn't destroying all sentient life to alleviate suffering a bit harsh?
By Ian Sankan9 months ago in BookClub
Sometimes, Silence Is The Best Revenge
I am aware that you have the intention of penning a lengthy and involved message in which you detail the specific reasons why you are frustrated with the other individual. I am aware that you have the need to confront them in person and yell at them about how you can't comprehend what they have done to you. I am aware of the fact that you have the want to cut their tires, throw a drink at their face, and sleep with their closest friend. I am well aware of your desire for some form of retribution, some form of resolution, and some form of an outlet for your rage.
By Ian Sankan9 months ago in Motivation
Tornado Survivor Story
Storms and tornadoes fascinated and terrified me as a child. My mother-in-law and my great-grandmother were terrified of storms, likely due to undiagnosed lilapsophobia or astraphobia. The scariest sound for me personally was the sound of the tornado sirens being utilized at nuclear power plants. Anyway, I started reading and researching as much as possible on extreme weather. A tornado that struck our little town in eighth grade claimed one man's life. We never walked into the corridor since I was sitting by a wall in my classroom, mostly made of glass windows. There was some communication among classrooms that our county was under caution. The session was stopped when I alerted the instructor to the sky's terrible, almost malignant green hue. My teacher said, "Class, I don't believe we are in Kansas anymore." It landed less than one mile from where we were.
By Ian Sankan9 months ago in Earth
Dating A Single Mom: What You Need To Know
Dating a single mother may be rewarding and difficult at the same time. Understanding the particular dating dynamics that may arise in advance can be helpful for those thinking about dating someone with kids. This may enable them to start the relationship in a more emotionally stable, forgiving, and prepared position.
By Ian Sankan9 months ago in Families
I Wish I'd Known These Things About My Mother
Mommy performed the unthinkable. She left Vietnam while carrying me, and she lost contact with my father in the commotion. She was so determined that despite not knowing any English, she brought all her 14 children to America without incident, tracked down my father five years afterward, and kept them all in order. She envisioned for me a better existence. I refused to follow her plan to displease the one individual I wanted to please.
By Ian Sankan9 months ago in Confessions
THE TRUTH ABOUT SIBLINGS AND CAREGIVING
Healthcare practitioners and carers are aware that "there's always one." One sibling typically takes on most of the caregiving duties in families. It makes no difference if you are one of six children or the only one. One is always present.
By Ian Sankan9 months ago in Chapters
Single Dads: It’s a Small Club, Right?
Did you know that the percentage of single fathers in the US has nearly doubled to 1.6 million since 1980? There are a lot among us. The census counts probably overlooked a few as well. The growth rate for single dads is 6% per year, twice that of single moms. That means that among us guys, about 15% of households are headed only by the dad.
By Ian Sankan9 months ago in Families
Genuinely Valuable "Life Hacks" That Have Significantly Improved the Lives of Those Who Tried Them
If an excellent life tip improves your everyday activities or general happiness even somewhat, it will be worth the weight in gold. These are merely a few of the most helpful life hacks.
By Ian Sankan9 months ago in Lifehack
The Sigma Males Rules
The Sigma male character is the most ethical of all; they are like soldiers who follow an obvious set of rules and rarely stray from them. They are the lone wolves among men; their rules are not popular and are frequently controversial; these men comply with their path and cannot be persuaded to change, frequently presenting a problem for those who do not comprehend what drives the sigma male. A few men are built this way.
By Ian Sankan9 months ago in Men
BUT DO YOU WANT THE TRUTH?
The Wachowskis' science fiction movie The Matrix is perhaps one of the most influential films ever produced. Thomas Anderson, a computer programmer who goes by the alias "Neo," a hacker, learns the truth about his world when he learns that "The Matrix" actually exists. After searching for a man named Morpheus who can inform him more about the Matrix, he runs into another hacker named Trinity. Trinity brings Neo to Morpheus after a failed effort that resulted in Agent Smith's capture and bugging of him. The Matrix is obliquely described by Morpheus as this all-encompassing prison, as well as Neo's world, which has been pulled over his eyes to prevent him from seeing the truth. As he says, "You have to see it for yourself," no one can be told what the Matrix is. So, Neo is given the option between two pills: a blue pill and a red pill. He stays in his regular life and believes whatsoever he wants to believe if he takes the blue pill. "All I'm offering is the truth," says Morpheus. "If he selects the red pill, he will enter the matrix and discover what the matrix really is." Neo swallows the red pill and falls into the rabbit hole as a result. The Matrix is regarded as a philosophical movie that explores various traditional philosophical and religious issues, including prophecy, love, reality, karma, the concept of reality, and simulation-based existence. However, the Matrix and Plato's Allegory of the Cave appear to have a powerful affinity for one another. In this allegory from Plato's Republic, Socrates talks about a group of people who have lived their entire lives chained to a wall within a cave. The bare shadows displayed on the wall in front of them are the only reality they know, and they take them to be actual people. Then one of the inmates is set free. He emerges from the cave and encounters the outside world. However, he encounters opposition when he goes back to the cave to inform the other inmates of the truth. This video explores the topic, "Do we, as human beings, really want the truth?" by analyzing The Matrix movie through the prism of Plato's Allegory of the Cave.
By Ian Sankan9 months ago in Chapters