Most individuals get triggered when insulted, so I wrote an article about dealing with insults. For the most part, stoicism teaches you how to achieve a peaceful state of awareness and be unaffected by things not up to you. One of these things is insults, which frequently cause the receiver to get hurt, angry, and even resentful.
Nowadays, someone will always be offended regardless of what we say; it's almost as if people are actively seeking opportunities to be insulted so they may vent their rage and strike back. A verbal insult is not worth wasting your mental resources on unless you're like me and like to troll the insult or, at times, just for entertainment. Betty thinks it's foolish to do since it could escalate the situation to violence. Most Stoics would agree that getting triggered is usually a waste of time. Of course, there are situations in which self-defense is a necessity. However, there is frequently enough distance between insults and actual violence for us to let insults and even threats roll off our shoulders and move on, maintaining our mental calm. Based on the type of insult, there are several methods to respond. When someone insults me, my first thought is, "Who am I dealing with?" since often the insulter is simply dumb; in that case, responding to the insult is pretty worthless.
Other insults are motivated by rage and may be accompanied by violence, such as a punch to the face. In contrast, negative visualization is a terrific preventive tool that simplifies you to filter out these kinds of insults during the day.
Seneca writes, I quote, he struck you well, then do you strike back? In this letter to Lucilius, he called on anger that we'd stop the argument without striking back because it takes two people to battle. Yes, the attacker or insulter might be considered the winner. Still, as stated by Seneca, the winner is the real loser, especially if the attacker intends to provoke a response by not reacting. They lose the opportunity for a fight.
Another insult contains wisdom. When someone offends you by saying something, consider it momentarily before responding, defending yourself, or getting upset. What can I learn from this, and what is my part in this? Should I ask the person who insulted me to elaborate? Is this a chance to strengthen my relationship with the insulter? Scrutinizing an insult is like striking two birds with one stone; you keep peace of mind and get a chance to make amends. What's the use of becoming angry when insults are being hurled at you? Epictetus urges us to remember that our judgments, not external conditions, lead to insults. He said, and I paraphrase Keep in mind that it's not the person who beats or verbally abuses you that is offensive; instead, it's your opinion of them that is.
This doesn't mean we shouldn't defend ourselves if necessary, especially when our life is at risk. Striking down your enemy is justified. It just means that people who get offended by minor things frequently don't realize that their minds have turned these small things into an insult frequently; they are offended by people who don't even intend to be insulting.
However, regardless of who began or terminated it, there is always a risk that we will never be able to let go of a past occurrence. Isn't it preferable to just let it go because holding onto this occurrence causes hatred and frequently a desire for vengeance, which can cause even more misery than the event itself? The best way to learn how to do this is to observe animals. Animals fight and argue, but they do their business after a while as if nothing has happened. On the other hand, Stoics live in the moment at all times rather than harboring grudges like humans do. The world isn't perfect, and you don't have a right to a perfect life, despite what the media may lead you to believe. Most things, especially people, will act in ways that are.
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Think about it... You recently won the lottery for ten million dollars. Congratulations. You've just finished the warmest, tastiest chocolate brownie ever made.You just finished having sex. And you just accomplished all three of them at once. Likewise, congratulations to you. Our brains create substances known as neurotransmitters in these circumstances, which offer us these wonderful feelings of vigour, excitement, and joy. And we wouldn't experience these feelings in such wonderful conditions if we didn't have these chemicals inside us. Imagine this instead: You were recently let go. You are about to take a test. You're depressed. Instead, in these circumstances, our brains release various chemicals that cause us to feel agitated and apprehensive. How we feel and the substances in our brains regulate the ups and downs of life. We all have this important organ inside of us that regulates everything we experience, think, and do. 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I wanted to learn something new because I had already learned enough about the brain and its operation at home. I thought about my interests and discovered that I had a strong interest in eating since I was a very young child. I cherished eating. So I decided to research human nutrition. And this was fantastic because it allowed me to learn about food, how it impacted our health, how it may create sickness, and—most importantly—how we might use it to stop and avoid it. This narrative begins in Russia in 1845 with the conception of a fascinating boy who would grow up to be an amazing man but would later be ignored by history and health. Ilya Mechnikov was attracted by nature, as well. By the time he was eight years old, he was making notes about every living creature in his lush backyard garden. He excelled in research to the point where he identified the function of phagocytes, important immune system cells, for which he was awarded the Nobel Prize in 1908. But via a story of discovery, mortality, and self-experimentation, his science after receiving the Nobel Prize was even more important to the comprehension of human health. You see, there is a connection between everyone in this room. Our mothers carried all of us during the first nine months of our lives. And you were the only live creature in what was a sterile atmosphere. However, when you entered this world, you were covered with an invisible layer of helpful bacteria from your mom's birth canal. And as these bacteria multiplied, they formed the microbiota, or microbiome, now an invisible organ weighing three pounds, or the brain inside your big intestine. This unseen organ has expanded to the point that just 10% of the living things in your body are currently derived from human cells, and 90% are bacteria. Therefore, you are less human and more bacterial.Your gut's microbiome has a diversity comparable to the Amazon jungle. There are countless species, each with a unique function. And the life and vitality of this rainforest are crucial to your health. Your gut bacteria help you digest some foods, make necessary hormones and vitamins, respond to medications and infections, and regulate your cholesterol and blood sugar levels. Meaning that your chance of developing certain diseases, such as diabetes, obesity, and possibly osteoporosis, can be strongly influenced by the species of microbes in your gut. Almost every function in your body involves them. They operate similarly to a second brain. Ilya Mechnikov might have come to this conclusion on his own in 1892. At the time, a horrific cholera epidemic in Paris, France, claimed thousands of lives. He naturally felt that the best way to explore this as a scientist would be to consume cholera broth. Amazingly, he stayed healthy. 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