Ian Sankan
Bio
I am a writer with proven writing ability in various fields. I consider writing a passionate career and a platform through which I extend my intellectual ability.
Stories (83/0)
Why does he keep coming back?
Done that; been there before. As a guy, I carried out the action over and over and over again. And continued to do it over and over. Both she and I were incorrect in our assumptions about the situation. I was mistaken because I thought that every time we broke up, she would fix the problems that I noticed in our relationship that caused me to leave repeatedly. Or, she would do things that I wanted her to do as a couple or as the woman who would take care of her man as I was taking care of her while we were both taking care of each other. Perhaps after I left, she would realize what I was searching for in a relationship, which was something more than a mere physical attraction; after all, anyone can find that. I was looking for someone who was both emotional and a team player. The issue was that I never talked with her about what was wrong, and she never responded to any of my attempts to connect with her.
By Ian Sankan8 months ago in Confessions
Dealing With Insults
Most individuals get triggered when insulted, so I wrote an article about dealing with insults. For the most part, stoicism teaches you how to achieve a peaceful state of awareness and be unaffected by things not up to you. One of these things is insults, which frequently cause the receiver to get hurt, angry, and even resentful.
By Ian Sankan9 months ago in Education
I DID NOT ASK TO BE HERE.
Is it preferable not to have existed? Some people think it would be better if there was no conscious life at all. The philosophical position known as antinatalism holds that procreation constitutes moral evil. Therefore, we ought to steer clear of it. Some antinatalists believe that just humans should stop having children, while others argue that it would have been better for all sentient beings if they had never existed. But isn't it wrong to be against childbirth? Why would somebody be opposed to the development of new life? David Benatar is one of the most well-known antinatalist thinkers of our time. Instead, Not to Have Been, one of the books he wrote, contains a thorough explanation of his antinatalist beliefs. Benatar contends that creating new sentient life is always evil because doing so causes grave harm. Therefore, the most beneficial thing we may do for our future offspring is to avoid procreation because those who haven't been born aren't subject to the pain of life. His antinatalist stance is, therefore, not motivated by a dislike for sentient creatures. It is motivated by compassion because it wants to stop the inevitable misery of being born. Antinatalism is a contentious issue that conflicts with many people's worldviews. The general public likely opposes antinatalism since they view it as misanthropic. After all, isn't destroying all sentient life to alleviate suffering a bit harsh?
By Ian Sankan9 months ago in BookClub
Sometimes, Silence Is The Best Revenge
I am aware that you have the intention of penning a lengthy and involved message in which you detail the specific reasons why you are frustrated with the other individual. I am aware that you have the need to confront them in person and yell at them about how you can't comprehend what they have done to you. I am aware of the fact that you have the want to cut their tires, throw a drink at their face, and sleep with their closest friend. I am well aware of your desire for some form of retribution, some form of resolution, and some form of an outlet for your rage.
By Ian Sankan9 months ago in Motivation
Tornado Survivor Story
Storms and tornadoes fascinated and terrified me as a child. My mother-in-law and my great-grandmother were terrified of storms, likely due to undiagnosed lilapsophobia or astraphobia. The scariest sound for me personally was the sound of the tornado sirens being utilized at nuclear power plants. Anyway, I started reading and researching as much as possible on extreme weather. A tornado that struck our little town in eighth grade claimed one man's life. We never walked into the corridor since I was sitting by a wall in my classroom, mostly made of glass windows. There was some communication among classrooms that our county was under caution. The session was stopped when I alerted the instructor to the sky's terrible, almost malignant green hue. My teacher said, "Class, I don't believe we are in Kansas anymore." It landed less than one mile from where we were.
By Ian Sankan9 months ago in Earth
Dating A Single Mom: What You Need To Know
Dating a single mother may be rewarding and difficult at the same time. Understanding the particular dating dynamics that may arise in advance can be helpful for those thinking about dating someone with kids. This may enable them to start the relationship in a more emotionally stable, forgiving, and prepared position.
By Ian Sankan9 months ago in Families
I Wish I'd Known These Things About My Mother
Mommy performed the unthinkable. She left Vietnam while carrying me, and she lost contact with my father in the commotion. She was so determined that despite not knowing any English, she brought all her 14 children to America without incident, tracked down my father five years afterward, and kept them all in order. She envisioned for me a better existence. I refused to follow her plan to displease the one individual I wanted to please.
By Ian Sankan9 months ago in Confessions
