Dark Secrets
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"Dark Secrets" covers various topics related to parenting, relationships, mysteries, child development, and teen issues. It aims to provide insights and advice on the challenges that parents and teens may face in their daily lives.
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A Psychologist Breaks Down Your Love For Game Of Thrones
A new study published in the journal Psychology of Popular Media suggests that many of us see ourselves in the imperfect and morally ambiguous characters portrayed in Game of Thrones. Their popularity is from their ability to make us feel a connection.
By Dark Secrets2 years ago in FYI
4 Types of Gaslighting in a Family
You’re so dramatic. That never even happened. You’re overly emotional. If you have heard people say things like "you have a vivid imagination," or "you're just blowing this out of proportion," then they are trying to gaslight you. These phrases are hinting that everything you think is wrong and they do not believe the amazing thing happened to you because the person issuing the statements doesn't see it as something incredible.
By Dark Secrets2 years ago in Families
How Do Digital and In-Person Interactions Affect Wellbeing?
With social media on the rise and with the worries about privacy starting to surge, it's important to remember that strong relationships benefit humans. There are many studies that show that when we're connecting with another person that we feel better than when we're alone. But some people argue that interactions that are primarily digital, such as those on social media, come less naturally than face-to-face interactions. Some studies have shown that the amount of time people spend on their phones can have negative consequences on mental health. There have been mixed findings from these studies and thus it is not clear whether people should be scrolling on their phone or spending more time outside.
By Dark Secrets2 years ago in Longevity
Making Friends as a Man Is Hard
I used to be very social, but these days I prefer staying at home and tending to my plants than going out. I can't find the reason why or when this happened, but now that it has I am happy with it. I was pondering about the fact that people get lonely and that sometimes people even need to take themselves out of society for a bit. As I'm getting older, I'm noticing how difficult it is to socialize and I'm on my own.
By Dark Secrets2 years ago in Humans
The Best Mindset for Minimizing Stress
It's tough to navigate stress. Part of the problem comes from how not many of us have developed effective ways for dealing with it. In general, social scientists agree that avoidance of stress is not a very effective coping strategy. A lot of (most?) life's stressors are unavoidable and cannot be avoided, but most people can still find ways to relax during difficult times. Although we have to cope with these changes, the best way to deal with them is to prepare in advance. People can get better at how they interpret the stress they experience, but we can't learn to be immune to it.
By Dark Secrets2 years ago in Psyche
Gratefulness: A Necessary Ingredient for Relationships
There is a powerful energy that comes from being thankful and so grateful. This energy can positively effect any marriage & will not be fooled by someone who has begun to fake their gratitude, even if they are supposedly in love and constantly together. Regardless of the risks, always feel grateful to those who provide you with happiness and a richer life. It's well worth it to be in love! Being thankful is an important part of life and helps spread more light in a world that can sometimes be so dark. Let’s consider three benefits of living gratefully.
By Dark Secrets2 years ago in Humans
Moral Injury and the Agony and Power of Love
This idea has been around for more than three decades, but side effects aren't fully understood. People are still debating what defines it and its side effects. Moral injury means that your worldview was shaken significantly in a moment of disaster. It can leave you feeling lost, confused, and more vulnerable in reactive emotions. It is not unusual for human beings to do this kind of thing. People often witness or are forced into life-changing situations that change their futures, which leads to crimes of passion, betrayal, and ignorance.
By Dark Secrets2 years ago in Humans
2 Things You Don’t Say to Someone Who Is Depressed
Depression is a prevalent issue worldwide. However, how prevalent in the United States? In 2020, it was estimated that about 21 million adults and 4.1 million adolescents (NIMH) suffered at least one major depressive episode.
By Dark Secrets2 years ago in Psyche
Which is better: an arranged marriage or a love marriage?
In western society, we view arranged marriages as outdated, and heinous in some cases. However, I believe that in doing so, we disregard many important aspects of an arranged marriage. Statistically, an arranged marriage has a lower likelihood of divorce. I believe this is due to these pairings' heightened sense of commitment. Driven by culture, these couples have a sense of duty towards marriage. Arranged couples begin a marriage without love, and expect it to last a lifetime. They are statistically more likely to make it last a lifetime! It’s hard to believe that these couples never grow to love each other. I’m sure that many grow to love each other unconditionally. So, this practice seems to do a better job of upholding the permanence of marriage. Which, really is the entire concept of marriage outside of religious factors. But, I don’t know that arranged marriages are the better practice.
By Dark Secrets2 years ago in Marriage
5 Signs that Your Partner is a Narcissist and How to Avoid the Drama
Narcissism is a personality disorder that has been defined as "a type of personality disorder in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others."
By Dark Secrets2 years ago in Longevity