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Why Do People Hurt Others?

It's hard to know why people hurt others because everyone has their own set of motives and reasons for committing an act of violence. However, if you are interested in learning more about the different types of violence and what causes certain acts to occur, this article will take a look at some theories behind why people hurt others.

By WarishaPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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Why Do People Hurt Others?
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What is Emotional Abuse?

Emotional abuse is a type of abuse that can be hard to identify because it does not involve physical violence. Emotional abuse can be just as damaging as physical abuse and can have a lasting impact on the victim’s mental health.

There are many different types of emotional abuse, but some common signs to look out for include:

• Constant put-downs or criticisms

• Excessive jealousy or possessiveness

• control over what the other person does, who they see or talk to, or where they go

• Withholding love, support, or approval as punishment

• Making someone feel like they are not good enough or that they are worthless

If you are in a relationship where you are experiencing any of these things, it is important to reach out for help. Emotional abuse can be extremely harmful to your mental health and wellbeing.

What is Physical Abuse?

There are many types of abuse, but one of the most common is physical abuse. Physical abuse is when someone hurts you physically on purpose. This can include hitting, kicking, shoving, choking, burning, or using any other type of force against you.

Physical abuse can happen to people of any age, but it is most commonly seen in relationships where one person has a lot of power over the other. For example, an abusive husband may hit his wife because he feels like she is not doing what he wants her to do. Or, a parent may hit a child because they are angry and frustrated.

If you are being physically abused by someone, it is important to reach out for help. There are many resources available to help you stay safe and get out of an abusive situation.

What Causes Abuse?

There are many reasons why people might hurt others. Some people do it because they're feeling pain themselves and want to take it out on someone else. Others do it because they want to control or dominate someone else. Still, others do it because they were abused themselves and think that's the way relationships work.

No one deserves to be hurt, no matter what. If you're being abused, please get help. There are people who can and will support you.

Can You Stop Abusive Behavior Without Therapy or A Disagreement?

There's no one answer to why people hurt others. Unfortunately, abusive behavior is relatively common in relationships. It can happen for a variety of reasons, like unresolved childhood trauma, mental illness, or power and control issues.

Sometimes people hurt others because they're struggling with their own pain. They may not even realize they're doing it. But it's important to remember that abusive behavior is never okay, no matter the reason.

If you're in an abusive relationship, know that you're not alone and there is help available. Talk to a therapist or counselor who can help you understand the root cause of the abuse and how to heal from it.

Physical, Emotional, and Verbal Roles in an Abusive Relationship

Physical abuse is the use of physical force against someone in a way that injures or endangers that person. Physical abuse can happen in both dating relationships and marriages. It can include a partner hitting, kicking, punching, or otherwise harming a person.

Emotional abuse is a form of abuse that can be just as destructive as physical abuse.

Verbal abuse is another form of emotional abuse. It includes saying things that are designed to hurt someone emotionally or mentally. Verbal abuse can include name-calling, making threats, or continuously criticizing someone.

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