Humanity
How to Be Your Best Self: A Practical Guide for Everyday Life
I. Understanding Your Best Self A. Defining Your Best Self Being your best self means striving to be the most authentic and fulfilled version of you. It involves recognizing your strengths, values, and passions, and aligning your actions with them. Self is crucial in this journey; it allows you to understand who you are and what you truly want from life.
By Mohammedseid Ahmedin2 years ago in Pride
Aromantic Terminology and Me. Top Story - July 2024.
All the terminologies with being a part of the asexual community. QPR, squish, and zucchini. Each of them are things that I have my own thoughts on. All of which I’ll be rambling here in the most coherent way that I can. I do hope that this makes sense for you all.
By Raphael Fontenelle2 years ago in Pride
Yearnings of a Hidden Daughter. Top Story - July 2024.
Growing up I never felt scared when I was with my dad. I’m still a little bit afraid of the dark now, definitely afraid of heights, and don’t do crowded spaces well. But as a little kid, when dad held my hand or stood by me, no matter how high up we were, or how dark a place was ... I knew I was safe. I don’t know how to explain it, it was a certainty … if my dad was with me, I was protected and I knew this.
By Savannah K. Wilson2 years ago in Pride
Letters to Queer Youth Challenge Winners
When I was growing up, I knew that I was different from those around me. I was a “tomboy” who secretly thought I looked so pretty in dresses. I never understood how girls around found guys hot, yet I wanted to be one. Sometimes I’d wear my dad’s button-down shirts, or pack. And sometimes I loved getting my hair done. I strived to find where I fit into, and yet my existence was always fluid. If only I knew that was okay, normal, valid.
By Oneg In The Arctic2 years ago in Pride
Three Straight Friends Asked Why I Took So Long to Come Out of the Closet
Three sets of straight-guy eyes turn, boring into me, genuinely intrigued. Dudes were perplexed. Wait, what had I said to make them so focused and interested? It was like the classic record-scratch moment, as if the music and conversation in the lively bar went silent and the entire room had turned its attention to me.
By Joe Guay - Dispatches From the Guay Life!!2 years ago in Pride
ⅅℯ𝑎𝚛e𝖘𝖙 𝙻𝗚𝜝𝕋ⵕ𝙰Ꞵℂ𝚾𝚈𝗭𝖦8𝒱𝚻ꓑʟ𐌑+ Ｙ૦𝝊𝐭𝗁, (part two)
The Law of Attraction. You have probably heard so much about this already. Maybe you have watched The Secret (Dare to Dream)? Maybe you’ve heard every celebrity and successful person you know of talking about the very same formula. (If not - start with Jim Carey and the story about him asking for a hike as a kid. Then look up Helen Hadsell. Then perhaps J-Lo, Oprah Winfrey, Jennifer Anniston… they all openly discuss this. Athletes, Olympic medalists and their trainers… the list is endless.
By Kayleigh Fraser ✨2 years ago in Pride
ⅅℯ𝑎𝚛e𝖘𝖙 𝙻𝗚𝜝𝕋ⵕ𝙰Ꞵℂ𝚾𝚈𝗭𝖦8𝒱𝚻ꓑʟ𐌑+ Ｙ૦𝝊𝐭𝗁, (part one)
For true change to occur, it is said that we must either go very far down a path of intense suffering (to find life’s truths waiting at the end of that arduous journey - when you will be in such a state of exhaustion and depletion that you have no choice but to change) or you must hear them from someone who you truly trust and who inspires you to change.
By Kayleigh Fraser ✨2 years ago in Pride
WE ARE WITH YOU
To my dear queer youth, I want you to know that I see you. I see the challenges you face, the fear of judgment, the struggle for acceptance, and the longing for belonging. These are not burdens you bear alone, they are shared experiences that connect you to a larger community of individuals who understand and support you. I want to continue this conversation with you, knowing that the journey you're on is both unique and shared by many. Every step you take, every moment of doubt or triumph, is a testament to your strength and resilience. In a world that may not always recognize or appreciate your identity. Navigating through societal pressures and discrimination can feel like walking through a storm. The weight of expectations, the sting of prejudice, and the echoes of ignorance can cast shadows on your spirit. In these moments, my empathy reaches out to you. I understand the pain of feeling different, of questioning your place in a world that sometimes feels indifferent or hostile. But amidst these challenges, remember that your uniqueness is your strength. It's okay to embrace who you are, fully and authentically. Your identity and every facet of it, is valid, deserving of respect, and worthy of celebration. Finding support is essential, especially during times of uncertainty or difficulty. Seek out LGBTQ+ organizations, online communities, or local support groups where you can connect with others who share similar experiences. These spaces can offer not only solidarity but also practical guidance and emotional solace. Surround yourself with people who uplift and affirm you, who see you for the incredible individual you are. Let's take a moment to celebrate the rich tapestry of diversity within the queer community. Each identity, each story, adds a vibrant thread to the larger fabric of human experience. Embrace your identity with pride, knowing that you contribute to this mosaic of courage, resilience, and love. Self-acceptance and self-love are not just ideals, they are radical acts of defiance against intolerance and bigotry. You are the author of your story, and your narrative unfolds with endless possibilities. Your journey is not defined by the challenges you face but by the strength you exhibit in overcoming them. Hold onto hope for a future where love and equality prevail, where every person is embraced for who they are without fear of judgment or discrimination. Your voice matters, and your advocacy can create meaningful change. Be resilient in the face of adversity, and know that your courage inspires others to stand tall. Progress in LGBTQ+ rights and acceptance continues to grow, propelled by the bravery and advocacy of individuals like you. As I conclude this letter, I want to reaffirm your inherent worth. You are valued, cherished, and deserving of happiness and fulfillment. Never hesitate to reach out—to friends, to allies, to supportive communities. Together, we can create a world where every individual is celebrated for their uniqueness and embraced with love and understanding. My aim is to provide comfort, encouragement, and a sense of community to queer youth, emphasizing acceptance, resilience, and the importance of self-affirmation. With unwavering love and solidarity, Nidhi Gohil.
By Nidhi Gohil 2 years ago in Pride
