The most helpless in love, nothing more than these 3 things

A writer once said a sentence: "Heaven and earth can not replace, I'm afraid that only love. Money, power, status, honor, can satisfy any aspect, but cannot fill the emptiness of the soul."

At first glance, this statement seems a bit exaggerated, but when you think about it, it's true.

Many things we want can be obtained through money, power, and status, the key is whether you have money, power, and status, as long as there is, everything can be solved. But the happiness and satisfaction that love brings cannot be replaced by anything else.

In other words, love will always fascinate people and make them yearn for it. If a person has more, without the nourishment and moistening of love, he or she will feel empty in the mind and lonely in the soul. It is for this reason that love has become an eternal topic.

There are many helpless things in love, and the most helpless things, there is nothing more than these three.

01. deep love but can not

Once you, have you ever loved someone deeply, but he did not like you at all?

You pay a lot for him, also changed a lot, but the exchange is not touched, not to mention heartwarming, but a polite "thank you", plus a decisive "sorry".

The fact is that the actual person is not a person, but a person is a person.

Love is one of the most helpless things in love. Love is not allowed, only refers to the wishful thinking of love and is not allowed.

In many TV dramas, there is an infatuation dedicated to love but not the role of love. They love someone deeply, willing to do anything for them, but are never able to impress each other's heart, and finally, either love and hate, blackened into a villain, or choose to let go and bear all the pain alone.

Drama comes from life. In real life, there are also a lot of people who love but can not. There was a private message from a reader, she once loved a man regardless of everything, to impress his heart, did a lot of things that previously did not dare to think, but he just did not accept.

Thankfully, he didn't hurt her verbally, nor did he embarrass her too much. But she could not figure out what was wrong with her, and why he did not like her. This question has become a knot in her heart, a lifetime unresolved.

Deeply in love but can not, the heart is not willing, but can not do anything. After all, feelings can not be forced, love and not love, there is no wrong.

02. Love but miss

The key word in love is always "destiny". Two people are destined to love each other and know each other and stay together for life. This is the most beautiful look of love.

Regrettably, love is more of destiny, many people sincerely love each other, and finally did not get together.

A relationship can go far, is never how deep love can determine, there are very objective factors that directly affect the future of the two people.

I accidentally heard a song, the lyrics tell a sad love story. The idea is that a pair of former lovers, separated for many years after meeting again, each other have a partner, they greet each other, with soft eyes, smile light, both happy for each other, but also full of sadness and regret.

Some people missed is a lifetime, even if reunited, but also in the end just passing by. After all, they have their own lives, and can not go back.

The two people who love each other, because of some unavoidable reason and separated, are the biggest regret in life. This kind of regret, many people have, just some people are used to hide, also learned to disguise, never move, only in the heart quietly miss, silent thoughts.

Why there are always a lot of people who love each other and can not be together? Because of their shallow fate of each other, can only love each other, and can not keep each other. The rest of your life, the ends of the earth, each in peace. Although regret, also helplessness, can only leave everything to time.

03. too late to meet each other

The matter of meeting each other, either hate early or hate late. If you can meet the right person at the right time, it is a lifetime of happiness.

The first thing you want to do is to have this kind of happiness, but fate is playing tricks on you, and you can't meet the right person at the right time, but you meet true love at the wrong time, so there is the helplessness of meeting too late.

The majority of the people who met each other are two people with families who have mutual love, but because each carries a heavy yoke, they do not dare to speak lightly of love, only to sigh that this life is not destined to meet late.

There are many married men and women in life who betray their marriage and abandon their families in pursuit of love in their hearts, causing indelible harm to innocent people. As for whether the two people are really happy together, it is difficult to say. The matter of feelings, this is like people drink water, warm and cold now.

The love that you meet is a great test of humanity. This kind of love, the price is extremely heavy, will hurt the two families. But anyone with a conscience can't bear to hurt innocent people. Those who are reckless for the sake of marriage feelings, in the end, are selfish, personal feelings first, regardless of the feelings of others.

A truly good person, even if they meet someone outside of marriage, will choose to restrain. For the integrity of the family, the happiness of children, and their conscience will not be hurt, will make such a choice. Even though the heart is sad, but also just lamented the meeting is too late, life is helpless.

Love is beautiful, everyone is very longing. But the helplessness in love, no one can escape. Either once loved but not, or later loved but missed, or met too late.

If you can meet a person, love for life, to be together for life, that is the blessing of the last life.

The world has its fate. Love in all kinds of helplessness, may not be a bad thing, after all, no one can predict what will happen in the future. Perhaps, everything is now the best arrangement, a different kind of encounter, a different kind of life, may not be better than the current life.

So think, helplessness or regret, it does not matter, down to earth to live their own life is the most important. What do you think?