Mental Health
Both
Overwhelmed because I don't know who I am Because motherhood didn't do that Life did Overwhelmed because my husband can't read my mind Even though he tries Despite my complaints Overwhelmed because I can't afford a house Because I'm choosing to stay home And raise our children Overwhelmed because my children scream and cry Over the littlest things And I'm still supposed to have it all together Overjoyed because I get to find out who I am again All while being in the midst of motherhood And this time… I get to choose her Overjoyed because my husband takes care of me And knows me most days Even when I don't know myself Overjoyed because I am the house My presence is the roof And my arms are where they come home Overjoyed because my children scream and cry And still reach for me Like I'm the only place that makes sense So I am both. Falling apart and holding it together. Lost and somehow exactly where I'm supposed to be.
By Carolina Borges4 months ago in Poets
Mature for My Age
I was seventeen and already speaking like I had taxes to file, already sitting with my legs crossed like an apology, already thanking waiters too carefully, already rehearsing adulthood like maybe if I did it convincingly enough someone would finally keep me. Then you arrived with your cigarette voice and your hands always smelling like rain-soaked denim and liquor, looking at me like you’d discovered something hidden under floorboards. You said I was different. Not pretty first— different. Which felt worse somehow. More permanent. You said girls your age are exhausting, but you— you could hold a conversation, you understood nuance, you had old eyes. Old eyes. I carried that phrase around like a stolen ID. I let it buy me entry into places I had no business being. You loved me most when I acted least like myself. When I stayed calm while you disappeared for hours. When I laughed at jokes that felt like bruises. When I folded myself smaller and smaller so your ego could stretch its legs. You called me mature in the same breath you blamed everything on my age. After fights, you’d rake your hand through your hair like a tired father and tell me, “You’re just too young to understand relationships like this.” Like this. As if love was supposed to feel like standing barefoot on broken glass trying not to bleed loud enough to make you leave. You made cruelty sound educational. Every time you hurt me there was suddenly a lesson attached to it. I was needy. I was sensitive. I took things too personally. Meanwhile you could disappear for two days and come back smelling like another woman’s shampoo and somehow I was the unstable one for noticing. I became excellent at doubting myself. You’d flirt with waitresses right in front of me, then kiss my temple afterward like I should feel lucky to be chosen at all. And God, I did. That’s the humiliating part. I loved you like a dog left out in the rain still wagging its tail when the door finally opens. Even after you left me crying in parking lots. Even after you went cold in bed beside me, your body there but your attention already elsewhere. Even after I started memorizing the silence between your texts better than my own reflection. The night you ended things, you spoke so gently I almost mistook it for kindness. You said this wasn’t healthy anymore. Said I deserved someone closer to my stage of life. And I remember thinking: Funny. My age only seemed tragic once you were done using it. You left me with all this wreckage then walked away acting morally exhausted, like surviving you had somehow taken something out of you. But the part that still wakes me up sometimes is how you kept your location on. Like I wasn’t even worth hiding from. I watched that little blue dot drift through the city night after night. The bar on Main. The whiskey place with the red lights. The ugly rooftop downtown where girls in leather jackets lean over sticky counters hoping destruction picks them special too. I would stare at my phone in the dark imagining your hand on someone else’s back, your mouth at another girl’s ear feeding her the same lines you fed me. You’re different. You’re smarter than girls your age. I forget how young you are. I wonder if she believed you immediately or if you had to work for it. I wonder if she cried in the bathroom eventually too. Years later, I still catch myself apologizing too quickly. Still feel panic rise in my throat when someone’s tone changes slightly. Still confuse being wanted with being consumed. But I know this now: You did not love me because I was mature. You loved me because I was young enough to mistake being destroyed for being chosen.
By Brie Boleyn4 months ago in Poets
“The Light‑Weight Coffee Ballad”
This is a light weight video from Sweetie Bird. She had Mom, Vicki, me, turn off the news to have fun today. Taking a break. No Folgers for me, just light weight humor, and light weight coffee with no acid to burn through the atmosphere,
By Vicki Lawana Trusselli 4 months ago in Poets
