Treat people with generosity to have a good relationship

One party pays too much, and the other party is all for it.

If you put up with it, it will last longer than most relationships, but unfortunately, no one will always give without asking for something in return.

When the paying party is awake, the relationship is bound to break down, and then wanting to make up for it can not return to the past.

So, no matter who you interact with, do not just ask for but know how to two-way output, you are good to me, and I am also good to you.

However, the degree of "good" may vary, but do not count too much, otherwise, it will only make you uncomfortable.

Some things are too clear to see, rather than confusing point to happiness.

The most important thing is to cherish the moment to embrace happiness, but if it's in love, it's a different story.

Relationship maintenance is two-way, there is a back and forth that will last.

1. Remember the good of others

In a relationship, goes to the end, most people at first remember each other's bad, but are separated for a long time but will slowly remember each other's good, but it is too late.

Many times, a person is good to a person, in fact, not what you want, but simply want to be good to him.

Sometimes the number of times you receive kindness, some people will take it for granted to accept.

But forget that nothing is taken for granted, he can be good to you, but also can withdraw the good to you.

When one party feels that the other party does not deserve to be treated kindly, the good that was given will also be withdrawn.

However, this does not mean that he wants to target you, but your status in his heart from a friend to a stranger, no need to be friendly, and no need to deliberately target, as if you do not know can.

So, don't take other people's good for granted, learn to remember the good of others, give the most basic respect, and in due time give back this good.

Not one-way output, but two-way friendly.

2, do not trample on the good of others

And speaking of which, we have to mention the "feedback" of this being good: you can not accept, but do not trample.

Heard a story.

A person who lost something everywhere can not be found, posted a notice heavy reward, it so happened that the beggar picked up the roadside, thinking that this person was usually kind and charity to kindly send back.

But when the beggar picks up the things hands, is trying to say "without any reward, just to thank the usual kindness of the master", the master but backpedaling said the beggar stole their things, and the beggar was beaten and thrown out.

The beggar is a scholar, but the family can not afford to read, coincided with the natural disaster became a beggar, would like to survive the most suffering and start again.

Which thought to do a good deed, but was seriously injured, this injury will more than likely die, before dying he made up a song, to promote the hypocrisy of that person.

I did not expect this song to be sung very high and later found by the man's opponents, became the key weapon to defeat him.

Originally, it was just the transmission of goodness and goodness, but because of some people's hypocrisy, it became a false transmission, and good people were "hurt" by hypocrisy.

Ignoring the goodwill of others will only end up sowing the roots of misfortune for themselves, as retribution, not unrewarded, just not the time.

Today's actions, or for tomorrow's disaster.

3、Tolerance of each other's shortcomings

No one is perfect, gold is not perfect, no one is perfect, and there will always be one or two flaws that exist, but this does not prevent daily interactions.

However, if you make friends, and always focus on the shortcomings of others, it is undoubtedly looking for enemies, you look disgusted, and others are said to be angrier.

A vigorous picking of other people's problems, saying what should be said, should not be said, and finally, friends into enemies became the inevitable result.

No one can be good-tempered to put up with other people's pointing out, but if you are yourself, I'm afraid you will not be able to stand it, do not do to others what you do not want.

Don't take the bad taste as fun, that will only accelerate the broken friendship, and finally, friends when not, strangers are not, but to add their enemies.

Instead of picking each other's shortcomings, learn to tolerate each other.

Look at things from a different perspective, find each other's strengths, learn from each other, grow with each other, and achieve each other.

People have shortcomings, but also have advantages, just more and less of the problem.

To complement each other's strengths and weaknesses, to make progress with each other, and to achieve better.

One more point of tolerance in life, there will be one more point of beauty.

Good at finding the beauty of life, finding the good of others, to harvest a different self from it.

Life is still a long way, will encounter a lot of people and things, be generous to others, strict discipline, to do a better self.