Life will be full before it is complete

Not to live, but want to live better, no longer satisfied with what you have at the moment, want to fight for more.

It is good to be motivated, but afraid that the ability to keep up with the desire, want too much, but not the ability to get.

In the end, it is not a help, but rather a resistance.

A desire to be strong and get more will only get you into the mud and deeper and deeper.

People should learn to live within their means, and accept their shortcomings, to make themselves better.

1、Inadequate, is the space for progress

No one is perfect, no gold is perfect.

The perfect person, there are also shortcomings but compared to ordinary people too much less.

Although life is the process of constantly chasing better, too much about whether it is perfect becomes a "problem".

It exists to remind you all the time to "do better", which invariably adds some pressure and more or less affects the normal performance of individuals.

But there is no real perfection in the world, but more towards perfection, pushing yourself too hard, and finally may not compete, lose to yourself.

Instead of looking too much at winning and losing, we should learn to face the gains and losses openly, I am fortunate to win and lose my life.

This time lost, there is the next time, all the shortcomings, are the space for progress, learning from the experience of failure, to lay a good foundation for the next win.

Losing is not necessarily a bad thing, know your shortcomings before it is too late, to be fully prepared to deal with greater challenges.

Life in the world, compared to perfection, inadequate more attractive, is the margin, but also the space for progress.

2, regret, is another kind of fulfillment

It is said that life should not leave regrets.

When you want to do something, you have to be brave enough to do it.

However, the world is unpredictable, life is difficult to get what you want, and you more or less will have regrets.

The former is the life of the "missing", the latter is the "lost" who can not let go.

Although once very good, with time, regret was added to the filter, think that the good, more is the role of imagination. Once the regret is made up, it may be the appearance of another regret.

Instead of being obsessed, it is better to let go of the obsession, face the regret and understand that loss is another kind of fulfillment.

The common stand-in plot in the novel, most of them are about the protagonist's nostalgia for the white moonlight, the regret to live as obsession, thinking that it is a deep love does not regret, but does not know that the stand-in that is the harm, to make up for the regret of the practice, not only is the irresponsibility of the feelings, but also the disrespect for that relationship.

I once heard a story.

Someone traveled back in time and space to try to change the regrets of the past but did not want to make up for regret, which invariably changed the fate of many people, creating more regrets.

Time and time again, the regrets eventually become more and more.

Choose to let go of regrets to have a new beginning.

Life with regrets is not growth, experiencing loss, to know how to cherish now have.

3、Loss is not necessarily a loss

Life will encounter countless times of gain and loss, there is gain and loss.

Loss, does not mean anything, but an empty position to accept more; getting, is another kind of loss, losing access to other qualifications.

Each has its good, and each has its bad.

Never be greedy to get all, in the absence of sufficient strength, greed will only make you lose more misery.

Instead of living blindly and fighting for unnecessary things, it is better to have a clear goal and pursue what you want between gain and loss.

Not because of a loss and discouragement, not because of a gain and arrogance, learn to face the gains and losses frankly, in the interests of the intersection, and strive to be the biggest beneficiary.

Of course, the premise is to accumulate a certain amount of strength, in the case of insufficient strength, reserving strength, to enhance their own is the wise thing to do.

Think about it from another perspective, loss, not necessarily a loss, is the next "get" the strength of savings, is a stepping stone to better achievements.

This loss will inspire the next "get".

Come on, the future is promising, losing is not scary, just stand up.