What traps you, is yourself

By the thinking limit, most people can see, and think of their cognitive range, although it will improve with age, but can improve the space is limited, compared to continuing to learn.

So, if you think you don't need to learn after working, you are too naive, there is no end to the sea of learning, there is still a lot to learn.

Life is a grind, only continuous learning to be prepared to break the limitations of thinking and better cope with the challenges of the unknown.

Such as rowing against the current, no progress is backward.

Continuous breakthroughs to achieve better.

1. Identify yourself and cultivate your mind

It is said that the person who knows himself best is himself, but the reality is not quite true, subjective factors, more will be self-deception.

Even if there is a problem, you will not easily admit it.

If you think you have fooled yourself, you will be able to fool others, but you do not think that the deception itself is false, pretending to be more like it is useless, and in the end, the more injured is yourself.

Instead of deceiving yourself, you should learn to recognize yourself, the shortcomings to correct, wrong behavior to admit fault, and bad emotions to control ...... recognize the shortcomings, there is room for progress.

Only know the "wrong" on the correction, to make progress, the achievement of a better self, as the failure of a business, the loss should be recognized, dare to stand up, there will be a chance to start over.

There is more than one road in life, take the wrong road to take a different road, always find the right one, just a matter of time.

Born as human beings, we should learn to introspect, find problems from ourselves, and not shame and then change, cultivate our hearts and minds, and achieve a better self.

2. Recognize difficulties and sharpen your will

There are 91 difficulties in the Western Paradise, life is also mixed with hardships, there are bitter and sweet, there is not to pass and there is to get through.

The former is bitter, but grinding people, the latter sweet but after the end of suffering, seemingly opposing, but complement each other, the end of suffering to come.

Difficulties, rather than trouble, rather than a challenge.

It is a millstone, a stepping stone, or a stumbling block that will make you fall, make you hurt, but will also allow you to grow from it.

Although there is no shortage of people who give up halfway through life, if you only know how to escape, then live and salted fish is no different.

What's more, there are so many hardships that can't be escaped, instead of escaping, it's better to face them, suffering their hearts and minds, laboring their muscles and bones, and cultivating their hearts.

Most of the time, only their own experience learned, is their own, as bankruptcy, only know that the rich second generation may never get up, the rich generation started with nothing but the ability to start over again.

Camus said, "True generosity for the future is to give everything to yourself."

Live well in the present, face difficulties bravely and hone your will to achieve better.

3. Keep trying to break the limitations

How hard you work, how far you can go in life road.

Although you can't choose your origin, you can choose how to live.

What most people think of as "fate" is not so much predestined by God as it is made by themselves.

When you're young, you want to enjoy yourself and don't want to suffer, so when you get old, you become "in debt" and make yourself eat all the pain of life.

Fortunes and misfortunes depend on each other, in most should struggle for the age of pleasure, and finally can only suffer the physical disability of their own, everything is cause and effect.

With the appearance of the bright and shiny screen stars, it seems that as long as you take pictures, on a variety show, acting in a play can earn money, but no half-strength in the entertainment industry is untenable. There are so many good-looking people and those who have the strength to go to the end.

Once they have also played the sauce, eaten the pain of life, relying on the accumulation of little by little, to achieve the good now.

However, even if they are successful, they are still working hard.

What qualifications do we have to give up?

Life is not in giving up but in continuous efforts.

Instead of looking at others, we should challenge ourselves, break the limitations, and break through.