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The grievance is also a kind of growth

In our lives, everyone will encounter a variety of aggression.

By Gloria TurnerPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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The grievance is also a kind of growth
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Sometimes, we feel aggrieved because we are misunderstood, but this misunderstanding can not be explained, not to explain the feeling of aggression, but to explain more feel some weakness.

Sometimes, because they made a mistake, want to make it up, but found how can not make up.

Sometimes, because they do something for a long time, but can not get the desired results if you give up will be a pity, if you insist but not reported.

There are many, many more moments of aggravation, so I won't go into them all. In short, the feeling of aggravation can make people feel very bad.

With the aggravation of a long time, the heart will produce a lot of negative emotions. Sorry, sad, painful, angry, wrapped in negative energy, can not be released for a long time.

Sometimes you want to find someone to talk to, but you find that there is no one around who can understand you. If you are lucky, you will meet this person, you can say the words of aggression, and your inner emotions can be greatly improved.

But most of the time such people are not met ...... nowadays, the social pressure is very high, a few people are willing to stop and listen to you tell it?

Only soul-matched people will understand your vulnerability, will understand your pain, and walk with you through the valley.

If you are fortunate enough to meet such a person, please never cherish him, but if you do not meet him, do not be discouraged, take care of yourself by yourself, you must be strong.

Some unspoken aggravations are also a kind of growth.

In life, each of us will encounter difficulties and aggression, when we can not solve these aggressions, negative emotions follow.

But we should not keep immersed in our negative energy, because this will consume a lot of our energy, when a person is in this long-term depression, negative, or anxiety, then it is easy to fall into the abyss of negative energy.

We should not give up, to climb up from the abyss step by step, instead of complaining about the unfairness of the world, why not change the thinking cognition, out of the negative emotions, stand higher?

Being misunderstood is not a very important thing, because everyone's feelings about you are different, you can't make everyone feel satisfied.

The more you care about what other people think, then the easier it is to lose yourself and your happiness. Self-confidence is something you give yourself, not something you gain through the approval of others.

Your heart must become strong, because only if you are strong enough, you will not care about other people's opinions and comments, and when others denigrate you, you become indifferent, which is a kind of strength, which is a kind of growth.

We have to allow other people's freedom of speech, but also accept their imperfection, no one is perfect, and we have to live for ourselves, live ourselves, and gain energy.

The best state of life is to have expectations, pursuits, ideals, and goals. Instead of just craving for material enjoyment alone, or putting our hopes in others.

We have a dream every day to go forward, surrounded by a variety of people, there are together towards the dream of peers, encourage you to move forward to encourage, there are some supporters who will support you no matter what, of course, there will be some critics and opponents.

You should not doubt yourself and deny yourself because of these people who do not understand you. No matter what happens, we must believe in ourselves and move towards our dreams!

When you reach the other side of the dream, you will find that these aggressions are nothing, once encountered some pain and difficulties will give yourself a stronger injection of energy, into a stronger self.

We grow throughout our lives, and sometimes aggravation is also a kind of growth.

The world is not for nothing aggression, all experiences are a kind of growth, you experience all the difficulties will return to you in another way.

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Gloria Turner

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Like to travel, love life

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