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Rising Above Pain

A Journey to Self-Discovery and Healing

By Hlengiwe Deborah NgwenyaPublished 6 months ago 3 min read
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Rising Above Pain
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Once upon a time, there was a woman who fell deeply in love with a man who showered her with affection and made her feel like a queen. She never imagined that he could be counted among the cheats of the world. Blissfully unaware, she continued to believe in their love, hoping that it would withstand any storm. However, as time went on, the man changed. His sweet words turned bitter, and he started bringing other women into their home. Despite the heartache, she clung to her love for him, with abundant forgiveness for his acts she continued longing to see him return to the man she once known. One fateful day, he lashed out at her, viciously declaring that she was nothing without him. His hurtful words echoed in her mind, searing into her heart. Though her happiness faded, she held onto the unwavering belief that one day he would recognize her worth and treat her with respect. Unable to see her own value, she became her own worst enemy. Struggling to break free from the hold he had over her, she found herself caught in the midst of a conference call between him, herself, and another woman. In this painful moment, he callously remarked that he had been urging her to leave him alone, but she stubbornly clung to him. Tears stained her cheeks as she absorbed every hurtful word, yet she remained trapped in the toxic cycle, hoping for change. Days turned into months, and her unhappiness grew. Deep down, she knew that she deserved so much more, but her self-doubt held her captive. It was in a moment of despair that she found herself standing before a mirror. As she gazed at her reflection, she instantly saw a woman of beauty and strength staring back at her. It was in that moment that a glimmer of self-worth ignited within her soul. With newfound determination, she whispered the empowering words to herself, "I am beautiful and fearfully made. I am smart and more than enough." Those words became her mantra, fueling her journey towards self-love and acceptance. Those simple words sparked a revolution within her. She began to rebuild herself, brick by brick, mending the shattered fragments of her soul. She let go of the toxic relationship, and as she walked away, she carried with her a newfound confidence. As, she mustered the courage to break free from the chains that bound her. Leaving the toxic relationship behind, she embarked on a path towards self-discovery and happiness. The weight lifted from her shoulders, and she blossomed into the woman she was always meant to be. Now, she surrounded herself with a support system of friends and family who uplifted and encouraged her. Together, they worked through the pain and helped her rediscover her true worth. She sought therapy and engaged in healing practices such as journaling, meditation, and self-care. Through these activities, she began to unravel the layers of self-doubt and insecurities that had kept her bound for so long. As she dove deeper into the journey of self-love, she discovered her passions and talents, nurturing them with a newfound fervor. She pursued her dreams, taking risks and embracing opportunities with an unwavering belief in herself. With each step she took, she felt the weight of the past fall away, replaced by a sense of freedom and power. The woman, once captive to the shadows of an unhealthy relationship, now stood tall, radiating confidence and embracing her true identity. She learned to love herself unconditionally, recognizing her worth was not dependent on anyone else's validation. She became an advocate for self-acceptance and empowered others to rise above their own shadows. In time, she attracted a love that matched her worth. It was a love that was rooted in kindness, respect, and genuine care. The universe rewarded her strength and resilience in ways she could never have imagined. Opportunities and doors started opening for her—one by one. She found herself in environments where she was appreciated and valued for who she truly was. In her professional life, she excelled and achieved milestones she had never thought possible. She discovered a career path that truly aligned with her passions and allowed her to make a positive impact on the world. Personally, she forged deep and meaningful relationships with individuals who uplifted and supported her growth. Love, in its truest form, entered her life as she stumbled upon someone who cherished and respected her, never taking her worth for granted. Together, they built a partnership rooted in love, trust, and mutual growth. As she looked back at her journey, she realized that leaving the toxic relationship was the first step towards her liberation and the beginning of a life filled with limitless possibilities. She had blossomed into the woman she was always meant to be, and she was grateful for the trials that had led her there.

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Hlengiwe Deborah Ngwenya

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  • Amukelani Ngwenya6 months ago

    Breaking lose through all odds, that's a powerful tale, discovering your self worth it's an important step one can take 🙌🤗🌼

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