People reach middle age, focus on yourself

The most important thing is that you have to be able to take care of yourself.

1, people in middle age, can not just live for others

When you don't know how tired you are of growing up, you think you can get the freedom you want when you grow up, but you don't think that with the growth of your age you will get the bondage you can't break free.

When people reach middle age, there are old and young, to make money to support the family, live more bitter and tired can only grit their teeth and persist, not like when they were young, as capricious and presumptuous, afraid that were to do a bad job will make them lose their jobs.

The more a person is afraid of losing his job, the easier it is to compromise for the sake of work, to do things that were once unwilling to do, say things that were once unwilling to say ...... is not ignorant of the step-by-step compromise, and so on will be an inch, but people in the workplace can not help themselves, in order not to lose their jobs, not to compromise and how can do.

The suffering of middle-aged people is indefinable and inexhaustible, they are not afraid of the suffering of life, but the family's lack of understanding: "You are so adult, you are so adult, you can't understand.

"You are so grown-up, how can you still earn so little money."

"We've been married for so long, you haven't even given me a single trip."

"Everyone else has, why don't I ......"

Word by word, stinging yourself.

It's not that you don't want to work hard, but work hard, but also live as an ordinary person.

Many times, the greatest suffering of middle-aged people is not the suffering and tiredness of life, but the lack of understanding of their families, no matter how hard they try, they can not meet their requirements.

Perhaps, people of middle age, can not just live for others, after all, we must strive to do better ourselves, in addition to making money to support the family, and know how to focus on ourselves so that they become better.

2, people to middle age, focus on themselves, deep plowing themselves

Tsunako Nakamura once said: "Life will become lazy if there is no goal. Once you decide to 'do this today, life will become open and relaxed all of a sudden."

People live a life, but dozens of years, and no goal of blind collision is undoubtedly a waste of time, it is better to think about what you want to do, to develop the corresponding goals, so that life has some hope, not to get by and mix life.

Today mixed with the day, tomorrow mixed with their own, do not want their middle-aged anything, you must learn to focus on the goal, deep plowing themselves.

People who live, whether for their families or themselves, should focus on themselves, deep plowing themselves, to achieve a better self.

A person can only get more options to make their life more possible if they become better themselves.

Instead of letting yourself become obsequious under the blows of society, you should be prepared in advance, before the "blows" appear, focus on yourself, plow yourself, and be well prepared to deal with the unknown.

People in middle age, there are a lot of not easy, continue to sit on the sidelines, passive efforts sooner or later will still be dismissed, rather than in the workplace to deepen their own, so that they have more adequate knowledge reserves, the ability to deal with one after another in the life of the accident, the achievement of a better self.

No one can predict how the future, what you can do now is to focus on yourself, deep plowing yourself.

Even if the road ahead is difficult, as long as you try to get through it, everything will slowly become better.

The difficult middle age, there will also be ushered in a new life, should be the saying "how hard you work, how lucky", into things in the sky, seek things in people, not lucky patronized you, but hard work to achieve you.

The happiness of middle-aged people relies on their step by step out, to live a good life, efforts have to be doubled.