A good life is their own "walk" out

What the future holds, no one knows, no one is sure, no one is clear.

However, some people subconsciously set limits on their own lives, thinking that "no matter how good they are, they will end up like this".

The value of one's efforts is invisibly devalued so that people can not be motivated to try again.

This kind of life, and then efforts are probably just like this, not fate limits you, but you limit yourself.

If you want to go further in life, it is necessary to change your mind, not easily resign yourself to fate, and bravely fight with fate: lose, and then be miserable; win, spell a beautiful life.

1, not afraid of age, bravely try

People in middle age, do what they feel in their hearts and souls.

Compared to the brutal collision of the young, now they're own more stable, but stable with a few "timid".

I feel that I have reached this age, there is a family that needs to take care of the young, and as a last resort, do not dare to try.

Although it is always right to be "careful" in life, but after that appropriate boundary, it seems too timid and afraid of things, as if life is limited, "this life is the end".

Do you want to be like this for the rest of your life?

When you are in your prime, you are going downhill, and when you get used to it, you can never go back to life.

Instead of resigning yourself to this, you should try bravely.

No matter what time, as long as you are still willing to work, it is not too late.

You see, now there are many elderly people enrolled in the senior college when they have time to learn what they are interested in, one by one to learn a lot of fun, although the process is relatively slow, slowly to eventually learn what they want.

Age is never a limitation. The only one who can limit you is yourself.

As long as you are not afraid of age, and are brave to do what you want to do, the future will be infinite possibilities.

2、Foot on the ground, accumulate experience

"One step to the top" is a beautiful imagination, rarely can come true.

In real life, more people are on the ground, one step at a time.

Although there is no shortage of those who daydream and want to lie to win, most of them will be under the ravages of reality "polarization", either self-loathing or rejuvenating.

People who give up on themselves will naturally be eliminated by society and lose the ability to survive.

The rejuvenated, you need to work hard to accumulate experience, "through" the possible difficulties, to come out of your own life. This road is very difficult, but survived but can benefit a lot.

In the second year of high school, there are always a lot of breakthroughs, the original results are not very good students, suddenly began to study hard, although not every effort to get into the ideal college, there are a lot of "miracles" appear, one after another to break the limit, the test was too good to think about.

All of this can not be separated from grounded efforts, whenever you want to start over, the future has unlimited possibilities.

Life for decades may encounter countless problems, whether it is today's own, or the future of their own, which need to go a long way.

Only by keeping your feet on the ground and taking each step well, can you continue to accumulate experience, break through difficulties, and meet your better self.

3、Perseverance, breakthrough

Tolstoy said: "There are only two kinds of people in the world: one is a watcher and the other is a doer. Most people want to change the world, but no one wants to change themselves."

Macroscopically want to change the world, despite knowing that they do not have that ability, but still will be brave and do it.

Changing oneself, on the other hand, is something that is clearly within one's power, but will always be habitually ignored.

If you want to change the world, you must first learn to change yourself, and only if you become better, you will be able to change others, otherwise the cart before the horse, you will only let yourself live more and more failure, empty ambition, but no half strength.

Change yourself, is a long effort, need to persistently work hard to make changes.

As 30 days "lotus law" that, the lotus flower full pond needs 30 days, but the open half of the pond is not 15 days, but the 29th day, only adhere to 30 days to have results, less than a day can not.

Think about what we did in the past, have we ever stopped halfway, obviously close to success, but still could not resist the temptation to choose to give up, so that the effort many times, but still far from a success, not to mention the real change themselves.

Only out of the comfort zone, the courage to take the first step, to break through the self, and achieve better.