A broken heart is so fragile

A broken heart can send you in TWO DIRECTIONS.

#1. It can send you into a place you’re spiraling out of control and making bad decisions.

#2. It can send you heartache, transforming it into a healing and growth process.

Has your heart ever been shattered this way? Did you feel strongly towards a woman you saw as your Cinderella? Did you feel so attached to a man you saw as your Prince Charming? Did life let you down in this dream called LOVE? Maybe you were the Knight in Shining Armor? Perhaps you were the Damsel in Distress the Knight came to rescue? You and your significant other planned this happily ever after together. It was happy, and then one day, it wasn’t.

FAIRYTALES ONLY LAST FOR SO LONG.

The honeymoon phase is over. The moment is gone. In the same strike as lightning, reality happens. Faster than you had come prepared. Did you ever reach this point in your love life? Did you ever feel it was time to give up on love? How did you pick up the pieces? How did you start over?

You might have just gone through a breakup. You might have just gone through a divorce. You might be going through a separation. You might feel that you have nowhere to turn and nobody understands what you could be going through. You have nobody to listen to and nobody to hear you.

Every time you reach out to a friend, they don’t want to hear the drama in your life. They want to take you out and cheer you up. They don’t respect your feelings, nor do they respect your broken heart. On the other note — maybe you’d rather not be a burden. I’m not sure about your situation.

I am sure that healing takes time, and nobody can tell you how long you need to heal. Everybody heals differently. You might see yourself as weak, but you’re strong because you have a heart that knows how to love. Do what you need to do to heal that broken heart and make it whole again.

Imagine the world and how many people are together that don’t want to be together. You were strong enough to face the world alone. You were strong enough to take the tears and walk your path into your: CALLING.

I find when life offers you a broken heart. It also provides you with a CHOICE. It gives you a choice to work through the pain until you see where you belong or run backward and repeat destructive, harmful patterns. In the end, everything that happens will result from that choice.

You’re here, and you’re beautiful. What is it you want to do with your life? Why aren’t you focusing more on that? The truth is that love will come, and love will go, but your gifts are forever when you learn to fall in love with your passion before falling in love with a person. You end up with the right person in the long run instead of the person who doesn’t understand you in the temporary. It’s good to love, but it’s better to be loved.

YOU ARE WORTH IT! Don’t ever tell yourself that you’re not worth it. Don’t ever sell yourself short.

Love is many things to different people, but to me, it is work. Marriage is work. A lifetime partnership is a work. In my humble opinion - anyone who thinks these things come easy isn't looking for love. They're looking for a companion. Something comfortable. Something familiar. Lucky is the jewel who understands this. What are you looking for?