The difference between a man, and a boy!

Ladies, we are just sometimes fooled by spoken words. However, sometimes we are just too blind to see it. We are fooled by those sweet warming messages and talks. From the “baby you are just perfect,” to the “you are so beautiful, I can’t wait to see you.” Are they sweet warming messages, or a trick to believing what his intentions with you really are? We are so gullible at times, that it gets hard to believe them until we actually get hurt. They say all these sweet things, then boom one minute want in our pants. We are just so mind blown and blinded by the truth. Ladies, we must be more open about this, we must really start thinking into this more. We must take the time to break down the steps into the truth. One thing, we must do is stop sleeping with them on the first date! Make the man work for it! Stop giving it up, to people that do not deserve you at all! The second thing is stop chasing him! Let him chase you if he wants you and make him work for it! Stop calling him several times, and stop being the first one too always text him. Most importantly do not respond right away too his texts. If he has not texted you for a day or 2 but is active on social media, delete him and stop fishing. Girl cut him off! When we fish, we go crazy, and we tend to get paranoid. Stop doing this! You are only hurting yourself. When we also fish, we may find things we do not want to see, or we may over think. When we overthink, we tend to sometimes accuse the other person, when there may not even be anything going on. This will push them away and will make it seem like you are crazy or do not have trust. A grown man will advise of this, and they will let you know that they do not want to be with someone like that. Honestly, I would not want to be with someone like that, because I could not be with someone who scoops or who does not trust me. Without trust, you cannot have a relationship. You might as well flush that right down the toilet and go focus on you for a while. Should I dig deeper into the truth? I think I should because some of you need to hear it. You get so caught up in these lies, and you only loose the respect you have for you. You show others that your value and the way that you are treated does not matter to you. This will make it seem like you do not care about yourself. Take time to see if he is a grown man or a boy. A grown man will put time into you, will spoil you, will take care of you, will put you first, will respect you, will give you the attention that you deserve, will not lie to you, will be honest, will remove those old women from his life, and so much more. A boy will not care. A boy will treat you like trash, use you, take advantage of you, will say negative things about you behind your back, or just want what is in your pants. A grown man will find a way to make you his regardless, but a boy will not. Little clues will show. You must open your eyes and see. If he is only responding when it is convenient for him but has time for everyone else, then it is time to cut him off. He is using you. If he is asking you to hangout late at night, then he typically wants a piece of a**! Stop ignoring the signs and start looking more into it. Show yourself some respect and find you a man that cares!