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Why is My Ex So Cold and Why Do They Keep Acting This Way? Find Out How to Win Your Lover Back

You thought that your relationship is forever but then your ex has broken up with you all of a sudden.

By Archer Published about a year ago 2 min read
Why is My Ex So Cold and Why Do They Keep Acting This Way? Find Out How to Win Your Lover Back
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You thought that your relationship is forever but then your ex has broken up with you all of a sudden. You may not notice it before but your ex has been cold towards for this past days and yet you still remain comfortable with your relationship. Your ex may have thought that you are taking the relationship for granted and that you don't care about him anymore. Aside from that, your ex may also be too preoccupied with other things.

Take time to realize everything and why the relationship has fallen apart. You may be too busy with your other priorities that you haven't paid much attention to your boyfriend anymore. After the break up, it would be best to give yourself a time to reflect on your mistakes. This will also make you realize your mistakes which could be the reason why your ex is so cold towards you.

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Your ex may have been bored with the relationship that is why he is acting cold towards you. If you have broken up with your ex and you want him back in your life, then you have to surprise your ex with new ideas that can ignite the fire again in your relationship. Try to improve yourself and show your ex a new you. Show your ex that you have changed a lot and you're not your boring self anymore.

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If your ex is cold towards you, he may have found someone else. Try to research on that through your common friends. If your ex is already dating and you still want your ex lover back, then you have to do ways to impress your ex and pull him back. Get yourself a makeover and make an effort to look at your best whenever your ex is around. He will definitely notice you immediately once you've showed up to places where your ex usually hangs out.

"His Secret Obsession" is a self-help book written by James Bauer, a relationship expert and psychologist. The book aims to help individuals understand why their ex may be acting cold and distant and how to win them back.

In the book, Bauer argues that most people focus on trying to be the perfect partner, but this often leads to a lack of understanding of the emotional needs of their significant other. He explains that people have a secret emotional need that drives their behavior and that by understanding this need, individuals can improve their relationships.

Bauer provides a step-by-step guide for individuals to uncover their ex's secret emotional need and how to fulfill it. He emphasizes the importance of understanding and communicating with one's partner to build a strong, lasting relationship.

The book has received positive reviews, with many readers stating that they found the advice and techniques provided by Bauer to be practical and helpful in improving their relationships.

In conclusion, "His Secret Obsession" is a valuable resource for individuals who are looking to understand their ex's behavior and win them back. The book provides practical advice and techniques for building strong and lasting relationships based on emotional understanding and communication.

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