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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

Love Divided
I was scrolling through my emails recently when I noticed an interesting article posted by users on Quora entitled ”why do Men struggle mentally in relationships” normally like most people I take a quick glance and the email is confined to the bin, however something about this post captured my intrigue so I decided to take a look further, also to unashamedly see if I could draw comparisons to my own life and experiences. Then, out of surprise, I found a comment which threw me off guard, a topic rarely even discussed out in the open. The comment highlighted how racial differences can become the defining factor in mixed relationships which cause mental health issues.
By Malachai Hough9 months ago in Humans
Ben Shelton and the Pressure of Growing Up in Pro Tennis
Some tennis careers begin quietly, while others unfold under a bright, uncomfortable spotlight. Ben Shelton belongs to the second group. From his first breakthrough matches, expectations followed him closely. Fans noticed his power. Commentators talked about his age. Social media moved faster than his own understanding of what was happening. A name suddenly carried weight. For many viewers, Ben Shelton feels like a story still being written in real time. His journey is not just about forehands and serves. It is about learning who you are while the world watches. This article looks at Ben Shelton’s rise, his playing style, the pressure surrounding young athletes, and what his path says about patience in modern tennis.
By Muqadas khan9 months ago in Humans
Your Phone Is Reshaping Your Personality
Your phone wakes you up. It tells you the news. It shows you what to care about. It decides what you see—and what you don’t.
By Mind Meets Machine9 months ago in Humans
The Strange Grief of Letting Go
Missing someone who hurt you is one of the most confusing emotional experiences a person can have. It doesn’t make sense on paper. If someone caused you pain, disrespected you, or repeatedly disappointed you, logic says you should feel relief when they’re gone. And sometimes you do. But alongside that relief often lives a quieter feeling: longing. You miss their presence. Their voice. Their familiarity. Even when you know, deeply, that staying would have damaged you more.
By mike9 months ago in Humans
The Exhaustion You Can’t Sleep Away
There is a type of tiredness that sleep does not fix. You can rest for eight hours, wake up on time, drink coffee, and still feel heavy. Not physically heavy in a way that points to illness, but internally heavy, like your mind is carrying more weight than your body can explain. Many people assume this means they are lazy, unmotivated, or broken in some way. In reality, it often means they are emotionally and mentally exhausted, even if they cannot clearly identify why.
By mike9 months ago in Humans
The Invisible War Between Who You Are and Who You Want to Be
The Pattern You Pretend Not to See Most people like to believe they are their own biggest supporters. They say they want growth, success, peace, love, and stability. And on the surface, that might be true. But if you look closely at behavior instead of words, a different story often appears. Procrastination. Avoidance. Inconsistency. Choosing comfort over progress. Repeating habits you already know are hurting you. This isn’t because people enjoy suffering. It’s because there is an internal conflict happening quietly beneath awareness.
By mike9 months ago in Humans
Why Burnout Is More Common Among High Achievers
High achievers are often admired from a distance. They’re the disciplined ones. The consistent ones. The dependable ones.
By Millicent Chisom9 months ago in Humans
When “Find Your Passion” Goes Wrong
“Find your passion” is everywhere — in graduation speeches, self‑help books, career workshops, and inspirational Instagram posts. It’s presented as the key to a meaningful life: once you discover the thing you were meant to do, everything else will fall into place.
By Tracy Stine9 months ago in Humans
Standing In A Public Toilet, A Fellow Woman Called Me A Man
I haven’t told anyone this story before. The only person who knows it is my ex-husband, and that’s because he was there and he saw the devastation written across my face.
By Ellen Frances9 months ago in Humans
Coco Gauff and the Quiet Weight of Growing Up on Court
At nineteen, most people are still learning who they are. Coco Gauff had to do that while the world watched, judged, and expected greatness from her. Tennis courts became classrooms. Losses became lessons. Applause came with pressure. This is not just a sports story. It is a human one. Coco Gauff grew up in front of millions, carrying hopes that were often heavier than her racket. Her journey shows how talent can open doors, but resilience decides who stays standing. This article explores Coco Gauff beyond scores and trophies. It looks at her childhood, her struggles, her growth, and the quiet strength it takes to keep going when everyone already thinks you have arrived.
By Muqadas khan9 months ago in Humans
We Built Intelligent Machines—Now They’re Shaping Our Minds
We built intelligent machines to serve us. To calculate faster. To organize better. To make life easier. But somewhere along the way, the relationship shifted.
By Mind Meets Machine9 months ago in Humans
Fear of Being Average
The fear of being average doesn’t show up as fear. It shows up as silence. You don’t feel it scream. You feel it settle.
By Randolphe Tanoguem9 months ago in Humans