Sugar negotiations

So sugar is like a business or a job in which a sugar baby and their time are the goods or products. That sounds crazy but if you think about it, it makes sense. Their time is what you are paying for. They are also being paid for what you add to the lives of the sugar daddy or mama. So like a business you have to negotiate. I will teach you everything there is to know about negotiate. Sugar negotiations are easy to explain but they take practice. Anything new takes practice. Some or most of this will be geared to sugar babies but this will be for everyone in the sugar life.

When you negotiate you have to talk about money, gifts and what you will do for the money and gifts. Talking money can get tricky especially when you don't know the person very well. You need to talk about whether you are getting your money as an allowance, pay per meet or just when you need it. With an allowance you need to talk about if you will get your allowance every week or every month. Allowance is whatever you want it to be. Sugar babies who get a modest allowance ($200+ a week). There's nothing wrong with a modest allowance this could help with bills.

You will also have to talk about how much will be received. Sugar babies have to keep in mind not to ask for ridiculous amount. If the sugar daddy asks how much the baby wants then they should expect a wide variety of answers. The most I have ever seen a girl get is $4,000 a month. As a sugar baby one of the most tactful way to come to a good amount is asking them for a range they are comfortable giving you. If you ask for a range they are comfortable with instead of an amount then you get to pick your allowance.

With gifts and other expenses (travel, uber, etc) you have to talk about if you will get that in addition to your full allowance or will it be taken out of the money you receive. Also you may want to figure out if you will get travel and gifts instead of money. You could also talk about if bills or a house/ apartment will be a part of the arrangement. This is to insure you are on the same page in the arrangement.

Remember the only ways you should be getting money is in person, cash app or paypal. Bank account info should never be given out. Also no cards should have to be bought.

The last thing to talk about is the requirements to get the money and gifts. What is expected to be done for the sugar perks? Let's be very clear, doing sex or sex acts for money, trips and gifts (or any perk) is not sugar that's prostitution. Also doing any cam girl stuff is not sugar that's being a cam girl. As a sugar baby you can do anything you would do for a friend or non sexual romantic interest, that's all that should be expected. If sex does happen you need to make sure that it is not what you're doing to get paid. There is a huge difference between getting paid for sex and having sex because you just want to. How can you tell the difference? If he is saying things like he expects blow jobs and sex that's pretty obvious. Also if you say no to something sexual and then he says that he won't pay you then that's wrong.

I hope this makes sense. I want you guys to have a great relationship and a great experience in sugar.