Signs Your Ex Is Pretending To Be Over You (How To Tell If Your Ex Is Unhappy)

When relationships end, it can be painful for one or both parties depending on the situation. But regardless of who called it quits or how it ended, it is supposed to signal the beginning of a new chapter in each persons' life. Even though you are ready to move on, you have a sneaking suspicion your ex isn't. It seems as if they want you back.

How can you tell if your suspicions are warranted?

1. It's time for a rebound. Before the dust even settles on the demise of your relationship, your ex has already rebounded into another relationship. Coincidence? No. Have they taken up with someone they were interested in while the two of you were still dating? It's highly doubtful. Chances are they are someone who needs to be in a relationship, any relationship, in order to try to grab some level of security and happiness.

How can you be sure? Take a good look at their new relationship and you will probably see, under the best circumstances, they would never be caught dead with someone like this. This person is probably:

• not really their type,
• they might not have anything much in common, and
• they might not even be good for your ex.

But to your ex, it is all they have until you decide to give them another chance.

2. Your ex isn't interested in any type of relationship at all. This is along the same lines as a rebound. It follows the old adage "if I can't have you, I don't want anyone." After a sufficient amount of time, everyone finds the need to move on. Besides, it's not only normal to move on, but it's healthy. This is even more of a clue they are still pining for you.

Although people require varying amounts of time in order to heal from a breakup, it will be obvious they are not being overly picky in selecting their new love interest: they are simply waiting for you to take them back.

3. Your ex finds reasons to get in touch with you. Even when they try to justify the reasons, they still aren't very good ones. At least not good enough to warrant keeping in touch with their ex. This is clearly an indication they are trying to reach out to you, incognito. Even if it is obvious to everyone around them that your ex is just looking for any little reason to contact you, to them it makes perfect sense. And it may be all that they have to work with.

4. Are you in contact with your ex's friends? Or maybe those friends call you too often. If so, then it's possible that your ex still cares about you and would like to know more about you. If your ex is still curious about you, then it's a sign that those special feelings haven't melted away yet.

Your ex's friends would serve to be an excellent source when it comes to finding out the truth. Instead of waiting for something to happen, a better idea would be asking them directly if your ex still has feeling for you. If yes, then his or her friends would only be too happy to help. This is also your chance to let your feelings be known.

5. Is your ex curious about you? When you do see your ex, does it result in flirtation or even talking about the good old days you spend together? Or maybe your ex kept asking if you are seeing someone new. If your ex is curious about what's going on with you right, like if you are in a relationship, then it's a sign that he/she still cares about you.

Your ex is not really asking because he or she wants to know if it's okay for them to see someone else. The reason your ex is asking is because he or she is bothered by the thought that you have moved on and is with someone else. It's possible your ex does miss and is afraid of really losing you. If you're not seeing someone else, then it's telling your ex that there's still a chance of getting back with you.

What destructive emotions were at the heart of the problems you experienced with your ex relationship. Maybe you really need to get control of what you are telling yourself. Look at your beliefs and see what you need to change.

Dos And Don'ts Of Getting Your Ex Back

These are the 5 things you must understand and take note of if you ever want to get your ex back smoothly and successfully. Otherwise, your chances of being back together will be diminishing.

1. Give Ex Sufficient Time

Getting back together after breaking up takes time and consideration.

You cannot expect your ex to give you an immediate answer. You need to give him or her time and breathing space to think and organize what needs to be done first.

But if you expect your ex to get back to you immediately or shortly after breakup, my advice to you is don't.

2. Talk And Listen To Each Other

As much as you want your ex to give you a chance to explain, you also need to do likewise.

By allowing your ex to talk and listen to what he or she has to say, you will have a better understanding of why your ex felt that way about you and what needs to be done to get him or her back.

3. Be Sincere To Your Ex

You need to prove not just by saying but doing as well. Otherwise if you get your ex back successfully, it will only be a matter of time before you break up. Now that I have shown you the dos, let us talk about the don'ts.

4. Don't Use Mind Games To Get Back Together

This will only make the problem worse than it is already.

If you intend to make your ex jealous by dating another partner so that you can get him or her back, I will have to disappoint you by telling you that it will never work with the current young generation.

Usually in 9 out of every 10 cases, your ex will not only not feel jealous but feeling happier and even encourage you to date your new partner instead.

5. Don't Be Too Pushy And Possessive

These will only succeed in making your ex even more convinced to break up with you.

By disregarding her feelings, you are not giving her any room for negotiations. You need to allow your ex to say whatever he or she want to say.

Whether or not the decision will please you is another matter together. If she says she is happy with her new partner and only want to be friends with you, please respect her decision.

By doing this, you are not only showing your magnitude but love for what she is rather than wishing what you want her to be. It is difficult but has to be done. Otherwise it could lead to tragedy. I may sound awkward but this is usually the case.

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