Marriage Life

Marriage, also called marriage, is a socially or religiously recognized union between two people that establishes between them, as well as between them and any rights and obligations.

How is marriage life?

Marriage is combining two individuals into one-party. It is a highly sacrificial endeavour.

• Identify seven important areas of live and check who to lead when encountering a threat to these areas. Most important: communicate with each other when a threat is encountered and before an action is taken.

• Love each other as the most important living person on Earth. If that cannot happen. Don't marry.

My married Life

Marriage is what you make it to be. Marriage takes work, but it can be very rewarding if you are with the right person.

• I enjoy being married

• We love each other

• We travel

• We have fun together

• We’re moral support for one another

• The positives are endless.

• But in marriage there are also disagreements. Never say anything you can’t taken less

• Try to solve disagreements right away

• Don’t hold grudges

• Don’t put other people before your spouse

Why does life get complicated after marriage?

I do feel that this is asked from an Indian point of view and in cases where joint families are there.

Man looks for logic and rationale while women is all jealousy. Your mother taught you till date and now another women is here who in her jealousy has to control you over everything. Your mother, Bhabhi, sister any body. THAT. That makes life complicated. Life is so simple if looked from rational point of view.

Women's Jealousy is the answer and there is no measure to it.

To top that laws in India are all against men which makes it even more difficult and forces one to compromise. Else alimony, settlement, domestic abuse, mental torture and then you fear your parents might be made part of it. That makes it more complicated.

Why is marriage Life complicated for a woman?

Marriage is an institution and thus serves multiple role and purpose. Responsibilities shoots up the roof, men are lazy and patriarchal society promotes women to do more work, play all her roles, and earn her living, take care of the baby, keep her husband happy, keep the house in good shape , and manage kitchen and social interactions, and yet after all these roles she doesn’t get proper approval , appreciation and she barely rest. All this scenario makes marriage life miserable, hectic, non rewarding and a mishappening in brief.

What I like the most about married life.

Hmm...

I love having my partner around all the time.

I love not having to worry about Where The Relationship Is Going.

I love the safety and security that comes with building a life together.

I love knowing someone so deeply and being known in turn.

I love that he calls me on my bullshit before I’m even aware that I’m bullshitting.

I love the family we’ve made.

I love always knowing where my next shag is coming from ;)

And I love not being part of the dating scene any more

But most of all, I love that this man stands beside me and we face life together.

Marriage experience?

Marriage is a sacred bond but the experience is different for everyone depending on their relationship.

In which if there is no love in a married relationship then the experience of the relationship is very bad. But the married relationship in which there is love, there is the ability to understand each other. The experience of that relationship is great.

What is the difference between love marriage arranged marriage?

In arranged marriage, the boy and the girl are related by the family members and after that when the family members like the boy and girl, they get them introduced and confirm their marriage. In arranged marriage, both the family members agree. Whereas in love marriage, boys and girls first like each other after that they decide to live with each other. After taking the decision, he knows the consent of the family members. Sometimes it happens that the family members do not like the choice of boy or girl very much and they do not agree. But in love marriage, the boy gives more emphasis on the consent of each other rather than giving much importance to the consent of the girl family members.

How is the marriage life in the real world?

My marriage is doing better now but we went through years of being disconnected. How we stayed married I’m not sure. I think we were both too afraid of “what if” and had some sunk cost fallacy going on. We fought pretty much daily for years. I’m pretty sure we both hated each other at the time. It took so much work from both of us and some long hard talks to get us to where we are today.

People change. Sometimes the changes make you more compatible and sometimes you drift apart. I think a lot of people get married too young with no idea what they want in a life partner.