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By Devendra singhPublished 2 years ago 5 min read
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Personality development is the development of the organized pattern of behaviours and attitudes that makes a person distinctive. Personality development occurs by the ongoing interaction of temperament , character, and environment.

How is personal development linked to psychology?

Personal development involves mental, physical, social, emotional, and spiritual growth that allows a person to live a productive and satisfying life within the customs and regulations of their society. This is achieved through the development of life skills.”

What is the difference between personal development and personality development?

Personal Development deals with needs and issues within an individual that are sensitive and very personal to him/her. There cannot be a right or a wrong answer or assessment to them because they are based on the individual and the cultural values and beliefs that we grew upon.

For example, during an exercise of Personal Development, we try to understand about ourselves as a ‘whole’, how do we form relationships with others in the external world, what are our interests and what activities do we participate in and find pleasure. At the same time, we also understand self-beliefs, other cultural practices and our internal value system that we uphold as we grow and evolve. In short, a self awareness exercise. Once we understand ourselves we try to inherently compare with others and find the areas we lack and look ways to develop them.

How do we improve my personality development?

The source of a well-formed personality lies in the core of every individual. The mantra to get recognised is to understand that every individual is born with a unique code. The grounds for becoming the most accepted lies in decoding your code. A champion does not do different things; they do things differently. You can become better by equipping oneself with the knowledge and adapting to the charismatic techniques.

A personality is a total package which is powered by a positive attitude. It is the main thing that makes you go up or suffer from a crash landing in life. A winner’s life is more humane, as they practice compassion and treat every individual with respect. The first step of it starts with respecting one’s self-worth.

What is helpful in personality development?

1. Smile a lot- Nothing works better than a big smile when it comes to interacting with people around. Do not forget to flash your trillion dollar smile quite often. A smiling face wins even the toughest soul. Wear your smile while interacting with others. Smile not only helps in enhancing an individual’s personality but also winning other’s heart.

2. Think positive- It is really essential to think positive. Remember there is light at the end of every dark tunnel. Do not always think negative as it not only acts as a demotivating factor but also makes an individual dull and frustrated. Don’t get upset over minor things. Be a little flexible and always look at the broader perspectives of life.

3. Dress Sensibly- Dressing sensibly and smartly go a long way in honing one’s personality. One needs to dress according to the occasion. An individual who is well dressed is respected and liked by all.

4. Be soft-spoken- Do not always find faults in others. Fighting and quarrelling lead to no solution. Be polite with others. Be very careful of what you speak. Avoid being rude and short tempered.

5. Leave your ego behind- An individual needs to hide his ego everywhere he goes. Be it office or workplace you need to leave your ego behind if you wish to win appreciation from others. An individual who is good from within is loved by all.

6. Avoid Backbiting- Backstabbing and criticizing people are negative traits which work against an individual’s personality. Learn to appreciate others. If someone has done some extraordinary task, do not forget to give a pat on his/her back. Believe me; the other person will speak high of you even when you are not around.

7. Help others- Do not always think of harming others. Share whatever you know. Remember no one can steal your knowledge. Always help others.

8. Confidence- Confidence is the key to a positive personality. Exude confidence and positive aura wherever you go.

9. A Patient listener- Be a patient listener. Never interrupt when others are speaking. Try to imbibe good qualities of others.

What’s the biggest challenge people face with personal development?

Changing habits of thinking and acting. We also want everything to happen quickly and people don’t often change developments.

What do you learn in personality development classes?

Everything we can learn in personality development classes. Personality development means developing personality.

I will give you some details.

1. Attitude: Importance of attitude. Building positive attitude.

2. Success: What is success? Winning strategies for life.

3. Motivation: Motivation to achieve success

4. Goals setting: How to set goals?

5. Self Esteem or Self Image: Building self esteem

6. Interpersonal skills: Learning interpersonal skills

7. Power of subconscious mind: Importance and role of subconscious mind in achieving everything.

8. Vision: Developing a vision for future and to achieve dreams

When does personality development finish?

I'd say that almost EVERYBODY has there own personality! Which can change after awhile depending on what sort of energy you'd like to expose body-brain to, love camps, the great outdoors hard rock concerts, peaceful ceremonies, drugs and alcohol all will effect one personality traits if continually exposed to! I'd say that everyone SHOULD be PROUD of there actions/who they are!

I know from experience how we SOMETIMES end up in situations where your personality really has no effect on the outcome of our day, it's actually kind've a bummer situation to be in but we can't always have FULL control of our lives! Just remember how it's true how’s "you get what you give"! I'm after health, happiness, confidence and prosperity in my life, I'd say that LOVE covers all of these things! I love to be alive, someday sometime I'll be able to share my love with as woman but for now I just got to love life!

What is the difference between education and personal development?

education is the way to personal development, together with information gathering. This is the great confusion of contemporary schooling systems- providing information is not the object of education. Education comes from the Latin e-ducere, which means to lead; information furnishing is not leading. The internet can provide information; parents educate by providing information and monitoring and guiding the use of it in life. Math or physics learned in school are tested through exams- you can make a living of mastering such information but it does not teach you how to live life.

Conclusion:

The developmental study of individual differences in personality provides a rich source of data for the researcher and practitioner alike to use in understanding and predicting behaviour.

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