Marriage is actually married to habits and character

Many women misunderstand marriage as marrying a man, not knowing that they have to marry the man's habits and personality, as well as the family behind the man.

This misunderstanding has led us to see many broken marriages in the world.

Marriage has three levels

The first level: marry a person you love.

The second level: Marry a loved one and his or her habits.

The third level: Marry a loved one, his or her habits, and his or her background.

In the first state of the couple, the marriage is relatively stable.

In the second realm of couples, the marriage is more stable.

Couples in the third realm rarely see divorce.

In this world, people who grow old together basically marry three times in their lives.

The first time was in a restaurant, with friends and family congratulations and blessings, to marry a loved one.

The second time is at home, two people after a few years of running-in, and each other's habits married.

The third time is in the family, with each other all kinds of affection marriage.

The second and third marriages are very different from the first. There was no grand wedding, no family or friends to celebrate, the only presence was a tacit understanding.

Real marriages, often happen in the last two.

Nowadays, many people get divorced after two or three years of marriage. If you carefully analyze it, you will find that the reason is that you did not push your marriage from the first state to the second state.

Everyone knows that boiling water kills bacteria. Hot love and boiling water, also can kill the shortcomings and shortcomings of the parties.

Those in love with the perfect Prince charming and little girl, into the tepid water of marriage, flaws and shortcomings will come back like bacteria.

This is when you must step into the second realm of marriage, marry his or her habits, accept and tolerate his or her shortcomings and shortcomings. Otherwise, the marriage will atrophy due to shallow roots.

They were a very loving couple, but inexplicably divorced a few years later. In all likelihood it is the result of refusing to enter the second realm.

After marriage enters the second realm, few people talk about divorce. Psychologically, they have come to terms with the other's character deficiencies. Some even put the other side of this lack into a kind of care.

At this time, the marriage is sweet and warm, showing the biggest characteristics of tolerance and complementarity.

However, a warm marriage does not necessarily mean a strong marriage. Solid marriage also needs the third sublimation, that is to marry with each other's affection.

That is, extend your love for one person to his or her parents and relatives. And in this love comes the wisdom of marriage: your partner does not belong to you alone, he or she also belongs to his or her parents and friends, and even to himself. Once a marriage enters this state, it also enters a state of meditation, and it is very difficult to separate.

In the world of love, many men often misunderstand that marriage is to marry a woman, and ignore to marry the woman's own pursuit, as well as the background behind the woman.

Many women misunderstand marriage as marrying a man, not knowing that they have to marry the man's habits and personality, as well as the family behind the man. This misunderstanding has led us to see many broken marriages in the world.

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