Love Language Test

Instructions: In this unique love language test, you will be presented with a series of scenarios or preferences. Select the option that best resonates with you or reflects your preferred way of giving and receiving love. There are no right or wrong answers, and it is important to be honest with yourself when responding. Let's begin!

1) When it comes to expressing love, I prefer:

a) Verbal affirmations and compliments.

b) Acts of service and helpful gestures.

c) Physical touch and affection.

d) Quality time and undivided attention.

e) Receiving thoughtful gifts.

2) How do you feel most loved and appreciated?

a) When someone tells me how much they care about me.

b) When someone helps me with tasks or chores.

c) When someone gives me hugs, kisses, or physical affection.

d) When someone spends uninterrupted time with me, giving me their undivided attention.

e) When someone surprises me with meaningful gifts or gestures.

3) Your partner or loved one is going through a tough time. How do you support them?

a) By listening and offering words of encouragement.

b) By taking care of practical matters and helping with their responsibilities.

c) By giving them comforting hugs and physical closeness.

d) By spending quality time with them, engaging in activities they enjoy.

e) By finding or making something special to lift their spirits.

4) What makes you feel most connected to your partner?

a) Engaging in deep conversations and sharing emotions.

b) When your partner helps with household tasks or errands.

c) Engaging in physical intimacy and touch.

d) Spending uninterrupted time together, without distractions.

e) Receiving thoughtful surprises or gifts from your partner.

5) How do you typically express love to your loved ones?

a) Through verbal expressions of love and appreciation.

b) By assisting them with practical tasks or chores.

c) Through physical touch, hugs, and kisses.

d) By giving them undivided attention and spending quality time together.

e) By surprising them with meaningful gifts or gestures.

6) Your loved one has achieved a significant milestone. How do you celebrate their accomplishment?

a) By expressing your pride and admiration through heartfelt words.

b) By helping them organize a celebration or taking care of any necessary arrangements.

c) By giving them a big hug, a high-five, or some form of physical affection.

d) By spending quality time with them, doing something special they enjoy.

e) By giving them a thoughtful gift that reflects their achievement.

7) How do you prefer your partner or loved one to show their love for you on special occasions, such as birthdays or anniversaries?

a) Through sincere, loving words and heartfelt messages.

b) By taking care of any necessary preparations or tasks.

c) Through physical affection, cuddles, or kisses.

d) By spending quality time together, focusing solely on each other.

e) By surprising you with a meaningful gift or gesture.

8) In times of conflict or disagreement, what helps you resolve the situation and feel loved?

a) Clear and open communication, talking through the issues.

b) Your partner offering practical help or finding a solution to the problem.

c) Physical touch and reassurance, such as holding hands or hugging.

d) Spending quality time together, actively listening and understanding each other's perspectives.

e) Receiving apologies or meaningful gestures that demonstrate understanding and forgiveness.

9) How do you prefer to receive apologies or make amends after a disagreement?

a) Through sincere verbal apologies and reassurance.

b) When the other person helps resolve any consequences or issues resulting from the disagreement.

c) Through physical touch and affectionate gestures.

d) By spending quality time together, discussing the issue and rebuilding emotional connection.

e) When the other person offers a thoughtful gift or gesture as a sign of reconciliation.

10) How do you show love and appreciation to yourself?

a) By giving myself positive affirmations and acknowledging my achievements.

b) By taking care of my responsibilities and completing tasks.

c) By treating myself to physical pampering or engaging in self-care activities.

d) By dedicating uninterrupted time to myself, doing things I enjoy.

e) By indulging in small gifts or treating myself to something special.

11) Which scenario resonates with you the most when it comes to feeling loved?

a) Your partner surprises you with tickets to your favorite concert.

b) Your partner cooks a delicious meal for you after a long day.

c) Your partner holds your hand or gives you a warm hug.

d) Your partner spends quality time with you, engaging in meaningful conversations.

e) Your partner writes you a heartfelt love letter.

12) How do you typically express love to others?

a) By saying kind and encouraging words.

b) By doing practical favors or helping them with tasks.

c) By offering warm hugs, kisses, or physical affection.

d) By devoting undivided attention and spending quality time with them.

e) By surprising them with thoughtful gifts or gestures.

13) What makes you feel most appreciated by your loved ones?

a) When they express gratitude and praise for your efforts.

b) When they lend a helping hand or assist you with your responsibilities.

c) When they show physical affection and closeness.

d) When they prioritize spending uninterrupted time with you.

e) When they give you meaningful presents that reflect your interests.

14) How do you prefer to receive support during challenging times?

a) Through kind and supportive words of encouragement.

b) Through practical assistance and helpful gestures.

c) Through physical touch and comforting embraces.

d) Through having someone be present and listen to you without distractions.

e) Through receiving thoughtful gifts or surprises to uplift your spirits.

15) Which of the following gestures would make you feel most loved and cared for?

a) Your partner writes you a heartfelt love note or a poem.

b) Your partner takes care of household chores or tasks without being asked.

c) Your partner holds your hand, cuddles, or gives you a gentle massage.

d) Your partner sets aside dedicated quality time just for the two of you.

e) Your partner surprises you with a gift that perfectly suits your interests or desires.

Scoring: Assign one point to each response based on the following key:

a) Verbal expressions of love and appreciation.

b) Acts of service and helpful gestures.

c) Physical touch and affection.

d) Quality time and undivided attention.

e) Receiving thoughtful gifts or gestures.

Once you have completed the test, count the number of points for each love language. The love language with the highest score represents your primary love language.