Life in the world, true friends are hard to come by

You are surrounded by people, some come and some leave.

The "no separation" that was thought to be the case can't resist time after all.

A go, a back and forth, the last remaining, either the best friend or a passing guest.

The most important thing is that it is difficult to find a good friend, but a bunch of passing guests.

The first thing you need to do is to get a good friend.

It's not a matter of treating people with sincerity in exchange, not a matter of begging and pleading, there is no shortage of "unanswered love" in this world, and naturally, there is no shortage of wishful thinking about friendship.

How long can the "hot head" last?

Perhaps it varies from person to person, but when the payment is not responded to, timely stop loss is the best choice.

1、Commitment, can not exchange true feelings

"I don't know if it's meaningless to continue, but I'm afraid I don't have friends."

Little A is a seemingly insistent, but fragile person, these years she has been painstakingly maintaining their youthful friendship, despite the many injuries suffered during the period, but she will take the initiative to find excuses for themselves to continue to insist as if as long as they try to maintain, the relationship will not change.

Only occasionally when drunk, she will reveal the bitterness of her heart, those moments of being stood up by her best friend and treated differently, she was very sad, but will still tell herself "she is very busy to not available", "they just happened to meet, only to play together." ...... can understand in her heart, that the relationship between each other has long been greatly reduced, and their own "head of enthusiasm" will inevitably be thrown cold water.

I once advised her, "Why don't you just give up?"

But she cried and told me, "I'm afraid that if I give up, I'll never have any friends again."

At that moment, she cried a lot and showed a different vulnerability than before.

We all understand that there is no point in insisting, just that the youthful relationship, once the beauty of the people can not bear to give up.

However, with the accumulation of aggression, people will sooner or later not eat, then do not want to give up or have to give up.

A relationship, not by one side of the effort to maintain, the need is a two-way run.

Not all friends are called "friends".

As age increases, people will slowly understand the value of friendship, but also know that barely maintained in vain, continue to aggravate themselves to maintain a long-ago feeling, only to put themselves in self-torture, rather than choose to give up early.

The time is left for people who are worth cherishing, and the heart is given to real friends.

The fact is that you'll be able to find out how false the "hot" friendships are, as you'll learn to reconcile with yourself and re-examine the word "friendship".

Real friends should be a two-way run, each other's cherish, in life can be seen everywhere in the heart.

2、Let go, does not mean lose

Not being willing to let go, does not mean that you can have.

Let go, also does not mean losing forever.

Just to the stage of giving up, there is no need to continue to insist.

Knowing that the road has gone wrong, but still want to continue to go, will only make their injuries, rather than so, it is better to turn a corner and go another way.

South wall hit more, people always have to learn to adapt, otherwise waiting for their own, is the head broken blood.

Although people are prone to foolishness, but once or twice on the good, don't spend a lifetime planted in a pit.

The timely stop loss is the choice adults should have.

This thing may be like love, you think you can not walk the threshold, but the actual is just self-torture.

The next one may be better.

The next one will be better. Life, not everything can be as it should be, and not everywhere can be blocked.

Friends, a lifetime will meet a lot of, but "real" not many.

Take your time, you can always meet real friends.

I hope we can all find our true friends and spend a good life together with our friends.